527 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. There really isn’t any set time limit , it comes down to what you choose to do for yourself. So no matter what we choose to do? , there will always be someone trying to rain on our parade and try to rub their 2 cents together. So it’s your life and your choice on what you choose to do ignore those other people they aren’t your boss and they don’t control your life , unless you allow them to. When a girl breaks up with me and leaves me , I can’t force her to stay with me , yes I might feel hurt and sad that her and I broke up and she chose to walk away , but it isn’t going to stop my life from moving forward, unless I choose to let it stop me from moving forward. I will start dating again when I feel ready to date again , usually it doesn’t take too long because I enjoy having someone by my side compared to being alone. Sometimes girls’ are lined up waiting to have a turn with me that I thought were just friends’ but now they want to be more knowing I am now single. So again it’s our choice on what we choose to do , no one else can make that decision for
You. They can talk all The shit they want to it’s not their life00 Reply
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- 1 mo
Depends... Who broke up with who and did you see it coming? For many it might be a relief not dealing with someone and will choose not to for a while because it feels so good to finally have some alone time and do whatever the fuck you want to do.
Others... shit... they're probably the cause of the breakup and they're going to be on someone else ASAP. They're the ones that get depressed when they can't find someone else to torture with their bullshit.
For me, I just went with the flow. Whatever happens is going to happen. As long as I'm making gains with the weights, the pussy is going to flem flam on my jim jam. But I can also vedge out on a video game and jerk off in my living room while I slam a beer
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- 1 mo
Honestly it was hard at first. Until I met my now husband. Yes my husband 47 he is older than me but one thing about my husband I feel like his wife and not his mom. Unlike my ex husband yes he is 32 closer in age but honestly in that relationship I felt more like a mom dealing with a child where his mom left off and not like a wife. I have learn millennial guys have are all men childs momma's boy.
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Personally, it's been easier for me if I moved on. But it may not always be the smartest way to go about it. I do think it's important to take sometime for yourself to heal and work on yourself and your life, make yourself the priority for a while.
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When the breakup happens I'm pissed I'm stressed and I want to feel something so I mean I will go out and try to pick up on somebody quickly LOL just because I want to please are wow that person and I mean I explain my situation to the girl and go from there it's just quicker easier faster to get over it00 ReplyAttempting to get over someone by getting under another seems easier but it’s a temporary fix that prolongs healing and you end up projecting ur unresolved bullshit onto a new person causing them heartache in the process cause you would rather avoid emotions that make you uncomfortable. I would rather sit in the discomfort for a few months solo instead of using someone
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Honestly, taking some time to be single usually helps. You get to focus on yourself, heal, and figure out what you really want. Jumping into something new too quick can just complicate things and keep you stuck in the past. It's all about finding that balance and knowing when you're ready to date again.10 ReplyMove on as quickly as possible. Which kind of dooms the next relationship because they're a rebound. So you're just transferring the hurt onto the next person most of the time. But it IS easier. Even if it's not right.
Even just taking a few weeks or months away from dating is probably the healthiest option, even if it's not the easiest.00 ReplySingle is good, then you can start making up for all of the fun stuff you missed out on while you wasted away a perfectly good Saturday at a mixed vegan wedding shower, or a poetry reading.
00 Reply- 1 mo
I have always needed to just be me, single, until I've recovered.
Which is why this time around I've been single in almost 4 years.00 Reply - s1 mo
Spend time being single. Rebounds are usually destined to fail.
10 Reply - 28 d
Its better for me when I spend time single. I heal better and avoid further problems
00 Reply 1.1K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. Life doesn't and shouldn't stop just because you break up with someone. If you meet someone new, move on. Life is too short.
00 Reply- 28 d
I've done both and staying single for a while helped me pick better than jumping right to the next person.
00 Reply 762 opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. move on. I would date somebody the next day if I could.
00 Reply- 1 mo
Of course it's easier if you move on as quickly as possible. But is that really the right thing to do?
00 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)1 mo
Yes, but even harder when it was trauma bonding.
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It doesn't matter. If it ends it was not meant to be and I accept it without issue.
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Spend some time being single
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I would love to date you beautiful
- 1 mo
Spend some time being single.
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I've rarely, if ever, been single very long.
00 Reply Instant move on!
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By taking a timeout.
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Love to date you and your friend baby
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