I dated this guy for three months, he introduced me to his mom, spoke about bringing me home etc… he had a broken hips from the military- he slowly stopped communicating as much. I made him food and drove an hour and a half there and back. I gave him gifts, and supported him during his surgeries. He told me his friends were trying to get him to move with them and he said he wasn’t. We talked all the time. He never wanted to label the relationship, but we became exclusive pretty quickly. He sent me a reel and then the next day went silent. I didn’t hear from him for a week. He watched my stories, kept his location on, etc. finally I reached out, and he responded a day later saying. He would be probably be moving away, and maybe he was being stupid and would regret this later, but he wasn’t ready for a relationship or anything after he had said he wanted to wait for the right moment to make me his girlfriend. Why did he say he would regret it later? And why would he lie to me about it and why would he introduce me to his mom, and then say he would regret it later? He said I was the sweetest person he’s ever met and he didn’t want to lead me on. He apologized profusely and we both said goodbye. I kept him on all socials and he never removed me, but we don’t talk. He never used any socials before and has been active posting on Snapchat which he never used. I am really just confused on the whole regret thing, and if I should just go ahead and block him since he watches all my Snapchat stories.
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Wow that really sucks what happened. That guy clearly had some issues he needed to work through. Introducing you to his mom and talking about the future only to backtrack like that was really messed up.
I wouldn't look too much into the "regret it later" thing. Probably just something he said to try and soften the blow of breaking things off. Guys can be weird like that sometimes.
As for why he's still watching your stuff on social media, who knows - could be he's not fully over you yet but isn't in a place to be with someone. Or maybe just nosy. Either way I wouldn't read too much into it.
If it were me, I'd probably block him just to make a clean break and not have to worry about what he's seeing online. You don't need that hanging over you as you move on. Seems like you gave this guy more than enough of a chance and he blew it, so don't feel bad about protecting your own mental space now. His loss! Hope you're doing okay.
It would seem he wasn't as into you as you were lead to believe. Could he have liked you? Sure. Did he feel like putting in the effort at that time, nope.
Remember, at the beginning of relationships is typically the height of feelings for eachother. You, got a reel.
As dog him saying he might regret it. As I said I'm sure he finds you attractive, but you're not what he wants currently.
If you're okay with never talking to him again. Block his ass. If you're hoping I've day you'll be together. Then keep him
But I know what I'd do
Couple mistakes but you get the point