Should guys accept girls that break up and want to return?

Question

This guy in my office was dating a girl. They even lived together and were planning to get married. One day she broke up and became a kept woman for a filthy rich guy. We hear she even participated in orgies and bukakes. Poor man did not see anyone else.

Suddenly this girl is back. She wants her man to "forgive and forget". Should he?

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

It was an excuse to fuck other people without the title of "cheating."

It's the same trick used with the infamous "We're taking a break," where usually the female side talks the guy into not going anywhere under the guise of her doing the same, and then she fucks every Tom, Dick and Harry. And of course, everyone finds out about it or sees it for themselves and he has to hear about it from them because he stayed at home being a good boy during the "break."

It's not the exact same trick, but it's basically the same trick. She went off to have her fun and now that it's not working out for her, she wants to come back to the safe guy.

If he takes her back... this pattern will just repeat itself over and over. I'd tell bro, "DO NOT TAKE HER BACK UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE, it is time for you to leave her behind." "Let her find some other sucker, and watch her treat him just like she treated you."

My vote was hard to choose since I feel like the first and last options are very much the same. I think he should accept he dodged a fucking bullet, and think twice the next time a woman is trying to get a marriage out of him.

As for her, she obviously tried to 'monkey branch' and in true monkey branching fashion, she didn't get a firm grip on the new branch, so she's trying to hold onto the old one even though she did him dirty as all hell. Let her lose her grip and fall out of the goddamn tree.

Should guys accept girls that break up and want to return?

My memes represent the transitionary phase, but I'm sure he'll move on, and find someone new. With the lessons he's learned, he'll be better at vetting and won't be as gullible to a woman that is full of shit. ... I mean shit...

You know she just wanted marriage so that she can take half of his shit and do the same thing. She popped off the plan too early just because the "other guy" was stacked with cash and she took that gamble.

"D_Bone_Steak, what would you do?" One may ask. I'd take her back and use her for sex and make her do lots of dirty shit, and then start cheating on her, and publically humiliating her. I would eventually leave her for good after I've dragged her through the mud and left her in situations with questionable people doing questionable things. I'd work hard to get her hooked on drugs, and make sure she ends up belonging to the streets. Most people are not like me though, so I don't think he should take the high road and not even think about being like me... even if it would be fun to get her fucked up, video record her having sex with barnyard animals, and then extort her for money... because I'll send this video to her Mom and Dad... Gram Grams going to be appalled. I might end it by leaving drugs in her car with baggies and such so to show she is obviously distributing... and then give an anonymous tip to the police or the Feds. Maybe an illegal gun just to boot. Then ghost her ass when she's at her worst.

All is fair in love and war.

uncleBobbyb77 · Accepted Answer

She chose to leave. If its been anything less than ten years after being dumped by the rich guy then let her stay gone. Ten years might be enough time for true growth and maturation and perhaps a true appreciation for what a genuine, good man offers can then be born but then again those things only happens in fairy tales and legends of days in ages long past

TheRealPepperPotts · Accepted Answer

If it were my brother ; in that context, I'd advise him to stand his ground and not take her back. It's not like it was a minor thing like they had a falling out and she is wanting to make amends. She revealed her true nature and now that she is realizing that she isn't happy, she wants to go back to the guy she snowed the first time. I'm all for giving people second chances, but I also care about the consequences of their choices on the people I love. She would have to show some serious evidence of change before I'd be convinced. That being said, it's my brother's life and if he takes her back, I'm keeping my opinions to myself and going to make the best of it. I may not have her babysit my kids, however...

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Whew! It is completely up to this dude, but she is bad news. He's only a consideration when she loses a sugar daddy.

If he is a cuck and not a man, he'll take her back. And she'll leave as soon as the next $$$ comes along. Ugh. I'm not calling her names, but her actions speak volumes.

He is foolish to set himself up to be abused a second time around. There are plenty of women who are honest, fair and loving. She's not one of them.

Jessica405 · Answer

Dumping for a sugar daddy is almost as bad as cheating. It's over for good. No going back. She had her chence and screwed up.

Finchie40 · Answer

Hell no , he would be wise not to waste anymore of his time on her

strateguy632 · Answer

No because they separated for a reason, see reference, so should not waste time. The word "waste" is not intended to be offensive.

Reference series how i met your mom, when the couple just repeats everything that annoyed each other.

alice55 · Answer

He's free to do what he want, getting her back is not the best idea because either she learnt she love him and then will stay with him either she ll come back to do the same things later but in the end he's free to do what he want it's his life.

zagor · Answer

In some instances, yes. In this one, no.

If, for instance, she breaks up because he has substance abuse issues but comes back after he is clean, then that would be OK. In this case she would probably only stick around til the next rich prick came along.

red324 · Answer

I had a girl do this. I told her we could be friends, but any romantic attraction for her was gone. Wasn't much their to begin with, but I wasn't going to be disrespected like that and then take her back. That pshyco lmao, the red flags were never more obvious. She met me at a department store once when I didn't respond to her text. My damn phone died, so I left it in the truck to charge and she showed up at the store I told her I was at. 😂

JesseP1nk · Answer

I keep it on one hundred. Only reason she came back was the chad found already someone else and she became a side chick. Now she want him back  TILL  he finds some other chad and run away with him again. She is a whore and she will never change.

MisterWack · Answer

A relationship takes two people agreeing, if one doesn’t feel the same way then it is over and she/he should move on. You don’t have to take back an ex, it is your choice & it is their choice to make to.

Vegasrunner · Answer

This is actually very common. I've sent countless women back to their husbands after I was done w/ them. The guy probably can't get anyone else so he'll have to take her back.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I wouldn’t take her back, but I don’t think you can apply that universally to every time someone wants to break up and then changes their mind. This particular girl just sounds gross.

BetaBucks · Answer

Take her back if he wants to have a life of regret, fake sexual interest, lovelessness and chaos. Just depends what he's into, ya know?

RavVid · Answer

It is possible that girl and guy fight and break up on the spot then regret it. if it is more than that than it should be a NO.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I once dated a woman who moved in with her side guy, making me the new side guy. A couple years later, she moved back in with me, but continued to see her side guy

lorenzomichael · Answer

Sure why not it. If it was good the first time it’ll be good the second time. Unless you broke up because they did something that you found morally wrong. Then no stay away from them, there now toxic to you.

BCA6010 · Answer

Both A and C. The first on principle, the second is more specific to this woman.

animesenpai · Answer

The options you provided suck... No one needs to be with anyone it's a personal choice... she isn't a whore for her decisions but they were her decisions and actions have consequences

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

Why is his life any of your business? You're old, unmarried with no kids. I think u need to focus on u

Unit1 · Answer

I wouldn't. It's cucky.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

She broke up to ride her first choice cock. Chad Thundercock pumped/dumped her, and now she comes running back to cock she "settled" for. Get rid of her.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Once she moves on from him he should move on entirely. If she feels later she made a mistake he's doing her a favor by rejecting reconciliation believe it or not.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Not in this instance. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

Emmytexrex · Answer

She would do same over and over again and still come back to him trust she can't resist the temptation or urges to enjoy her life

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Fuck no. If that was the case I would have welcomed my ex back. She let me go. So goodbye it is

Staximus · Answer

Tell him if he marries that girl he's in for a lifetime's worth of misery

Garud · Answer

a man with no self respect will do that

HusamRocks · Answer

No not when she considers him as a backup plan

Pete671 · Answer

Take her back then dump her,,,

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

HEEEEEEEELL NO

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe he should give her another chance.

dudeinohio · Answer

No way

Slim57 · Answer

Nope

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