Why do guys reject girls then come back to them?

This poll was inspired by @Still-alive question.

Girls, how many of you have been rejected before when asking someone out?

G@Gers would have you think that no women are the first to express explicit interest in a guy. But there are women, especially, myself who do so.

I have found most of the time, that these men who I know are dying to get to know me will soft ghost when I give the green light then come back. By this time I've completely lost interest and I am completely turned off by the lack of "carpe diem" on their part.

Choose the poll option you think is the most likely reason 🙏.

Why do guys reject girls then come back to them?
They aren't that into you but don't have any other options
They weren't expecting reciprocation and are insecure
They sense it will get serious and want to think it over
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Wow! 100 votes in the poll. That is enough of a sampling to apply this to society at large!!!
Why do guys reject girls then come back to them?
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