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My brother just got rejected by a girl he was seeing for some time. I know she liked him too and dont know what happened cuz he won't tell me. I know he was head over heels in love with her. It doesn't pretty often to him. He has never been a guy who would chase girls amd needed relationship. I would say he is a bit cold. Now he is absolutely broken. I have never seen him like this. He is really driven to become rich but now he doesn't do anything and just hangs out with his buddies. Is there a way to help him?
What to say to a close one who just got rejected?
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Ooh, that's rough. Your bro must be feeling totally crushed after getting rejected like that, especially since it doesn't happen to him too often. I can see why he'd be so down in the dumps about it.
It's good that you wanna help him out, though. As his sis, you probably know him better than anyone, so you've got a good shot at getting through to him. Just gotta be patient and let him know you've got his back, you know?
Maybe try talking to him about it, but don't force it if he's not ready. Just let him know you're there if he needs to vent or get his mind off it. Offer to do something fun together, like go to the arcade or play some video games. Anything to help get his mind off it for a bit.
And don't be too hard on him for not being his usual driven self right now. Heartbreak can really mess a dude up, even if he's normally pretty cold and focused. Just keep being a good friend and he'll start to bounce back eventually.
The most important thing is letting him know you care and that he doesn't have to go through this alone. With a supportive sis like you, he's got a way better shot at getting over this rejection and coming out even stronger on the other side. Hang in there, luv.
Remind him that rejections are just a normal part of life. Rejection doesn't necessarily mean that there's something wrong with him and that he is not worth loving. Rejection can also mean that something better will come his way in the future. Remind him that he still has a lot of life ahead of him and there's still more room for him to learn, grow, and become the best version of himself. Be patient with him because he just needs some time.
All you can do is remind him of his worth and tell him it's her loss. Every guy loses thier MOJO from time to time.