Have you ever bought gift to your ex girlfriend?

[bornangel]

My boyfriend, who I broke up with 3 months ago, bought me a gift for my birthday. I don't think it's normal because we broke up badly. Do you think this is a step towards reconciliation or is he making fun of me?

[D_Bone_Steak]

I don't care if it's reconciliation or if he's trying to make fun of you. He's buying an ex-girlfriend a gift is what I'm stuck on. That's some psycho shit.

In your shoes I'd be afraid that my ex knows my mailing address and take it as a threat.

[Anonymous]

He's definitely not making fun of you. He's just weird. I've never bought an ex anything. I've never even told an ex "happy birthday." Chances are pretty good that he's still interested in you. It might just be for sex. But it could just as likely be for reconciliation of the relationship.

[itsannalee]

My ex did that.
I broke up with him like on early August, and he gave me birthday gift and even sent happy birthday text to my twin. But I refused to accept it, it was because he wished i will go back to him.

[Nikki1989]

My exes and I buy gifts for each other all the time.

[LiamJHayden]

I've never had a bad breakup so I cannot speak to you situation. I have because a few are still in my large circle of friends. As I've said before, all of the ladies I've dated (as in a relationship) have been wonderful. I do not dislike them just because the romance was not there for us long term, and I wish them all well.

[dingo]

No, of course not, if I did something like that it would be disrespectful to my partner. Even if I didn't have a partner, I still don't think it's a nice situation because something didn't go right and you broke up. And also, value should be shown in time, not later.

[bornangel]

I totally agree, digging into the past would be disrespectful to my partner. Appreciation should be shown in time, not after the breakup.

[comedy]

Honestly, if this situation happened to me, I would be very happy. No matter what happens, it is a very nice behavior that he approaches you with maturity and still values ​​you.

[bornangel]

I don't think so

[candycane]

That’s kinda weird, honestly. Like, if the breakup was bad, why is he even giving you a gift? Maybe he’s trying to fix things, or maybe he feels guilty. But also, it could just be him being confusing. I’d say don’t overthink it just watch how he acts next.

[bornangel]

Yes, it is weird indeed. Maybe it is guilt or an attempt to make peace.

[Billlewis]

I absolutely love it when a beautiful woman lets me spoil her rotten, whether I've dated her previously or not, especially if she's dating a guy with whom she's intimate with, as well.

[Tarifa]

If you're in a relationship now with someone else, it's inappropriate.

If not, it may be a sign he wants to get back with you. Weird if the break up was bad.

[Rahuliyer4977]

Yes. I bought her Deepavali sweets. She was Vietnamese in Toronto. I am of Indian background. We had broken up. I still got her Deepavali greetings and sweets.

[MicahRaine]

Yeah I have multiple times. My first ex and I are actually still great friends. The breakup was hard but not messy. We've moved on, why not still be friends?

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

I'm the type of person to want to take back everything I gave my ex. Could have spent on myself like having more weed.

[Unit1]

Sounds cucky to me.

[StevenMcGarrett]

That is unusual. Sounds like a step towards reconciliation.

[WhitneySnow]

He sees it as a step toward reconciliation

[KrakenAttackin]

He's an idiot.

[ClassicDropout]

Hell no 😭

[Honestboobman]

Depends. Ages? What gift?