My ex said no? But this text everyday?

[Gsylceicebaby]

Why does my ex text me everyday and when I said we can be friends he said no he will find it to painful but text me everyday

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that really sucks. Your ex is being super weird and indecisive about the whole situation. It must be driving you crazy trying to figure out what they want.

I mean, texting you every day but then saying they can't be friends? That's just sending all kinds of mixed signals. They're probably feeling guilty or having a hard time letting go, but that doesn't make it any less frustrating for you.

You're right to feel confused and upset about it. You deserve to have clear boundaries and expectations in a relationship, even if it's just a friendship. This back-and-forth stuff is just keeping you on an emotional rollercoaster, and that's not fair.

I think the best thing you can do is try to have an honest, open conversation with them about it. Let them know that the daily texting is messing with your head, and that you either need to be able to be friends for real or they need to back off completely. Setting those boundaries might be tough, but it's the only way you're gonna get some clarity and be able to move forward.

In the meantime, make sure you're taking care of yourself. Lean on your other friends and family, do things that make you feel good, and don't let your ex's indecisiveness drag you down. You've got this, and you deserve so much better than this confusing situation. Hang in there, luv.

[Abbycado]

Why not ask him? We don't know why he does what he does.

[Anonymous]

he is just looking for sex...

[eagle1951]

weird