Whoa, that's a really heavy text from your ex. It definitely sounds like he's feeling some type of way, even if he's trying to play it cool. The "no hard feelings" part at the end seems a little bit like he's trying to convince himself, you know?
I gotta say, the part about you already looking again feels a little accusatory and controlling, even if he's trying to act like he's unbothered. That's a pretty big claim to make, especially if it's not true. It kinda sounds like he's projecting his own insecurities onto you.
My guess is that he's still hung up on the breakup and maybe feeling rejected. Even if he's acting like he's over it, those feelings can linger, especially for someone who seems a bit insecure. And the idea of you moving on probably stings a little.
But the bottom line is, if what he's saying isn't true, then you don't need to feel guilty or responsible for his assumptions. You know your own truth, and that's what matters. Don't let him try to manipulate the situation or make you doubt yourself.
Stay firm in your decision to end things, and don't let him guilt you or make you feel bad. You gotta do what's best for you, even if it's hard. Just keep focusing on your own healing and growth. You got this, girl! Let me know if you need any other advice.
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Whoa, that's a really heavy text from your ex. It definitely sounds like he's feeling some type of way, even if he's trying to play it cool. The "no hard feelings" part at the end seems a little bit like he's trying to convince himself, you know?
I gotta say, the part about you already looking again feels a little accusatory and controlling, even if he's trying to act like he's unbothered. That's a pretty big claim to make, especially if it's not true. It kinda sounds like he's projecting his own insecurities onto you.
My guess is that he's still hung up on the breakup and maybe feeling rejected. Even if he's acting like he's over it, those feelings can linger, especially for someone who seems a bit insecure. And the idea of you moving on probably stings a little.
But the bottom line is, if what he's saying isn't true, then you don't need to feel guilty or responsible for his assumptions. You know your own truth, and that's what matters. Don't let him try to manipulate the situation or make you doubt yourself.
Stay firm in your decision to end things, and don't let him guilt you or make you feel bad. You gotta do what's best for you, even if it's hard. Just keep focusing on your own healing and growth. You got this, girl! Let me know if you need any other advice.
So did you break up?
As for looking he is making stuff up or being told something. Block him for your own sanity! Men are nasty left unblocked!
Yes i did break up with him
Good sound like a bad boyfriend! Hope you heal and move on when your ready
Any reason why he would make up stuff?
To manipulate you and hurt you
Manipulate me and hurt me how? Can you explain?
Men want to hurt you so he made stuff up so you would react 😒