Do you ever regret how you treated an ex?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever broken up with someone and treated them very badly and regretted it? Did you ever get them back? What made you realise your mistakes?

[MrJMM]

MULTIPLE different types of girls cheated on me, and honestly, none of them were innocent. I realized it somewhat later in life; my ex, when I was 16, essentially she only wanted me because she wanted to have kids. I am not kidding; her reason for dating me is that I can give her kids... She almost fucking raped me, but I stopped her before things could escalate, and the next thing I knew, my ex-best friend got with her, and they were expecting triplets. And she came back to ask me what I should do with her kids, and I am like… I gave her realistic possibilities, and she got mad at me. She also had the nerve to slap me at the very end because I said of the possibility of an abortion since she asked me for all possible options since she was still in a very early stage that she could have gotten one. And she WANTED ME to pay her child support like somehow I slept with her and could have gotten her pregnant. 😒 So I disconnected all possibilities with her, and I do not regret how I treated her later like a damn plague. I have been in a relationship with a guy for two years, and we are delighted to be together.

[michalpl00]

Yes, my girl left me one month ago she lied to me about me being the only one since the day we met, which turned out to be a lie because she was with another guy dating stage after she lied. She completely broke my trust because I realized that it is OK in her morals to be deceitful and lie, especially when it comes to stuff like this, it is not OK to lie about being only attracted to me from the beginning so I found out two months into the relationship. It hurt me so much and I told her I wanted to rebuild the trust, but it was impossible , I became very suspicious all the time I looked through her phone and it just made her feel like I didn’t trust her, but it was because she lied about having attractions for somebody else. One time I accidentally bumped and scratched my dad‘s car and she suggested that I could just not tell him which again shows that it’s OK with her morals to hide stuff which is clearly a red flag again I don’t know if I did the right thing I know that my Feelings were valid and that she proved herself to be untrustworthy, but maybe it was just a mistake because we were not officially yet but still I don’t know how things would’ve turned out if I trusted her. I just know that I did what I thought was right at the time and I just felt , unsafe in the relationship essentially so yeah

[LeatherDame]

There was one where I got tired of her shit all at once and hadn’t had a chance to talk to her about it for a few weeks so when things blew up they blew up quickly and she felt blind sided.


In retrospect I wished I’d talked to her more earlier, though I know she couldn’t have changed and the outcome would have been the same.

[Anonymous]

Two years ago, I split from mine. i resented many things about our relationship and taunted him for a year. we finally got back together. irone dout the kinks. He never held it against me. No, No regrets. I leave it in god's hands as to why it even happened we broke up for awhile.

[Finchie40]

Not at all , for a girl to be my ex , she has to literally piss me off or hurt my feelings big time , for me to walk away from her , so in that case, she deserves the way I treat her and she deserves the consequences of her actions , I usually just give an ex the silent treatment , and make it clear to her that she is no longer a part of my life , what we once had , , is no longer there period , the damage is already done , she is best to keep walking the other way because I am already doing so , I only gave 1 ex a second chance, and it was the worst mistake I ever did , I no longer take exes back into my life if a partner can betray you or walk away from you, they will do it again , never fall for that shit , someone that loves you and cares about you will never leave your side period.

[red324]

Yeah I should have fucked her good so she stuck around instead of not having sex the night she stayed over... I don't know, I found out after the fact that she just goes from one guy to the next for no reason at all, so it was probably a blessing

[FreyaRed]

Yes, but not because of bad treatment. It was my first breakup and I have read too much bulls**t in media about remaining friends etc. It doesn't work and causes unnecessary more drama and pain than consequent cutting of all ties.

[overlord337645]

no but i regret how i let an ex treat me like garbage just because on week 3 they had our whole life planned out includeing marrying me haveing kids exc #weird and creepy

[Account]

Of course I regret my mistakes. I have made plenty of mistakes. I have been irrational in many cases and I wouldn't behave the same way.
That doesn't mean I would want them in my life again.

[Account]

Just because I made mistakes and I regret them, it doesn't mean it cancels their mistakes nor does it mean that we are compatible.

[itsannalee]

No, never. Even if i did something bad it must be a revenge, so i would never regret it.

[slatyb]

I have. The quest things I did was to continue a relationship that I knew I going to leave.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah, but no point crying over spilled milk. What’s important is noticing what you did wrong so that you don’t do it again

[Anonymous]

Dating a really great guy and he ticked all the boxes except he was tiny downstairs, yet he had no clue.

[Anonymous]

Yes I treated her too good. I was too nice. She got knocked up by a dude who treated her like this. I should have done the same lol

[Anonymous]

I just broke up with someone a couple of months ago. I didn't treat her badly, I treated her great. And I STILL feel bad about it every single day. Don't want her to hurt.

[justabuddy]

Regret is a part of life and comes with some of the hardest earned lessons.

[exitseven]

No, I was always nice to them.

[DrPepper12]

Not really. It was always amicable

[Crazzyyworld]

playboys are playboys no matter

[anastasia_651]

I didn't have one so why would I

[Emmytexrex]

I didn't

[Anonymous]

What did u do