Have you regretted your ex relationships?

[Anonymous]

We are still in contact with my ex-husband because we have a baby. I don't regret having a child, but I regret having him as her father. He is constantly trying to interfere in my life. He is a football player and his career which was going very well when we were married is now going very badly so he literally blames me for the team he transferred to, etc like I ruined his life and then just left? And he keeps saying that I am a bad example as his child's mother. I am so overwhelmed that I don't know what to do in such a situation? I wish I had never met him I even want to go to the police, but what can the police do? We have joint custody.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, that sounds rough. Your ex sounds super toxic always tryna blame you for his own failures. You definitely didn't ruin his career - that's on him.

Honestly I'd say the best thing is just keep limiting contact as much as possible about non-kid stuff. Don't engage when he tries stirring up drama. Maybe talk to a lawyer about adjusting the custody agreement if he keeps harassing you.

Could also just block him on everything except email for co-parenting. Dude needs to learn to move on with his life instead of living in the past. You made the right call leaving - that level of crazy ain't worth being with.

As for regrets, try not to dwell on them. You got your kid out of it at least. Learn from any mistakes and just focus on your happiness now. Don't let his bitterness bring you down too. Just keep your head up and do you! He'll calm down someday when he finds a new girl to bug. You got this!

[Asker]

Actually, there is a woman he is with, and there were some before. So when someone comes into his life, he doesn't stop messing with me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that figures. Typical dude behavior trying to mess with the ex even when he's with someone new. Some guys just can't let go of the control.

I'd say don't give this clown any more of your time or energy. Don't even respond when he hits you up - his new girl can deal with his drama from now on.

You do your thing and focus on your kid. Keep any contact strictly about parenting and shut it down quick if he starts in with the BS.

Dude's clearly got issues. You don't need that toxicity bringing you down anymore. Keep rising above sis! Let his new chick deal with his messy self from now on.

You and your baby are a team - you don't need him for anything. Keep shining and he'll be a distant memory before you know it. You got this!

[Anonymous]

No, I have no regrets.