What would you have done? Would you visit a recent ex in the hospital in that situation, or once you break up, it's over, you're done with them and their life, and you would have done the same thing he did.
- I would have visited the ex in the hospital knowing they were asking for me
- I would have hung up, and not visited the ex in the hospital
Most Helpful Guy
i would visit. even the shitty ex's who cheated on me i'd visit if they asked for me specifically or if i knew they were going to be there for an extended time.
having spent an extended time in the hospital i know how great it can feel to know that people care if it is people you've had falling outs with. it's a great emotional support during what can be a very tough time3
Most Helpful Girl
A guy I dated for eight years found out he had cancer months after we broke up. I talked to him throughout his journey and often asked him if I could come visit him, but he always said no. I really wanted to go to the hospital while he was there (multiple times), but the fact that he told me not to, and facing his family, kept me away. I offered though, and if he had said yes I would have.1