Would you stay in a marriage with someone that wanted to sleep in separate rooms?

[Finchie40]

My ex and I still live together and sleep in separate rooms , I don’t mind it considering we are no longer together , but it crossed my mind if we were still together , and she wanted separate rooms? , I would probably still divorce her , or leave her for someone else. I want a partner to be by my side in bed as much as possible , not the other way around. What would you do?

[texascollegegirl]

I've been think about this because of our fetishes and sex life. I was thinking for sure when my boyfriend and I get married we will often sleep in separate rooms because I need to be able to have sex with the big dick Blacks in privacy. But maybe I can just get up and go to a separate room when I need to have sex with the hung Blacks in the middle of hte night. I don't think he's ever going to want to get out of his oblivious cuckold situation and watch me having sex with them, so I will need to do it so he still has a little psychological deniability. At least he's wealthy so we can modify our house or something so there is a separate entrance to my bedroom or create a separate section of the house where I can have sex with these big dick Blacks. We went looking at houses as a trial run and the realtor I was using called it a privacy suite. We already knew each other because she's wired into the kink community. It was fun when she got me to confide why I needed it so badly. She told me she's seen it before and she has a house like that too so I got to see it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Will you freakin' can this racist "big d**k black men" BS belief system of yours, texascollegegirl? How did you stumble across that hoary stereotype about us? Were you at a "Birth Of A Nation" (1915, believed responsible for the KKK rebirth in the teens and twenties of the last century) retrospective, lassie?

[texascollegegirl]

@beefcakebradybatson Don't be stupid. Not all Blacks have big dicks, but there are a lot more big ones that are Black than white. Big for a white is way smaller than big for a Black. And all the biggest dicks are Black. That's just from having sex. And the biggest dick Blacks all really like pretty little white girls when they know we are their sluts and they are safe with us. As they tell me, it's part of their racial healing. You're a weird old man and based on the way you write, I doubt you're Black to begin with. If you are, it's in a very different culture.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Canadian culture is FAR different than a** -backwards U. S. "cultures" of ALL kinds, including BLACK American culture, though my mother and plenty of my relatives are or were African Americans. Additionally, my GQ cover boy good looks and 160+ IQ differentiate me from about 99.9999% of Earthlings, including almost all Yankees, ESPECIALLY black Yanks.(I'm different from nearly all BLACK Canadians as well;I LOVE buxom blondes and [most] Country music. We aren't monolithic, lady, despite what your disgusting "mis-education" system tells you, and your obvious racism marks you as a poster girl for its failings, the sort which gave a thuggish wannabe dictator TWO Presidential terms.

[texascollegegirl]

@beefcakebradybatson Laddies and lassies. Dude you are just an old man weirdo. Yanks? I know Blacks aren't monolithic; I'm highly skeptical you are Black. And again, all the biggest dicks are Black. That isn't racist to say. 160+ IQ? LOLOLOLOLOL!!!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Whatever, lady.

[PeachyPie93]

@beefcakebradybatson I doubt this person is actually a girl.. its more likely to be a guy in disguise since no woman is that obsessed or hung up on BBC LOL

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 Most of my friends are totally into big dick Blacks for sex. It's not like I don't have a white boyfriend. I post about him all the time. He's the one got me into this. That beefcake guy talking about laddies and lassies is fake as hell.

[beefcakebradybatson]

@PeachyPie93 Probably, or she's VERY troubled.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I couldn't be MORE REL, texascollegegirl. Your beliefs about us black men are false and frankly disgusting. Get a black boyfriend like PLENTY of white chicks or stay with Bubba, Billy Joe and//or Jim-Bob !!!

[PeachyPie93]

So you are telling me you and your friends have no life or hobbies besides taking dick? And your weirdo boyfriend got you into it, but your friends are also into it? I cannot believe there is a real girl out there this openly pathetic..

[PeachyPie93]

@beefcakebradybatson Possibly lol but who has no life besides taking dick? and would want to date a weirdo that is a cuck? those are the grosses kind of men..

[texascollegegirl]

@beefcakebradybatson You're full of shit. You're the least Black person I've ever seen online. What a handsome brady with all the laddies chasing after the lassies. GTFO with that bullshit.

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 You are a stupid shit. Nobody said anything about not having a life or hobbies besides taking big dick Blacks. More and more, girls are realizing it's very normal and healthy to want the dicks that can please us, which are the biggest ones. All the biggest dicks are Black. It's also kinky because of racist fuckups continue to be racist. It doesn't mean we don't have other hobbies and interests.

[PeachyPie93]

Well its all you talk about on this site, so it doesn't seem you do have anything else going for you besides being a BBC slut with a f***** cuck as your boyfriend who watches you get plowed by multiple men. You haven't mentioned anything from this "life" of yours yet to prove me wrong LOL. You do know you don't need massive train dicks to have great sex as well which if you were a girl you would also know that.. but keep talking the more you go on, the more I know you are a fake ass troll xD

[beefcakebradybatson]

texascollegegirl, you're the poster child for the reason Trump was elected, never mind RE-ELECTED. All you and your dumbs**t girlfriends think about is a long-debunked, centuries-old myth. And you're probably a young Karen who'd clutch your purse or call the cops should you encounter a black man. Well, stupid is as stupid does, girlie !!!

[texascollegegirl]

@beefcakebradybatson Bullshit - I hate Trump. Go fuck. yourself.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Better f**k myself than YOU, texascollegegirl !!!

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 You're a sexist idiot and a liar. Because you're so insecure about your small dick, you think it's okay just to make shit up about women who enjoy big dick. Nothing wrong with having multiple men so long as it's our free choice and we and they enjoy. Men do it all the time. People use different accounts for different things. Dicks aren't just pleasurable in proportion to size -- the big dick Blacks are exponentially pleasurable relative to size.

[PeachyPie93]

LOL I am not you who needs to pretend I am a 18 year old who gets fucked by a bunch of guys with big dicks.. I actually am a woman with a normal life and not a slut. There is many things wrong with hoeing around, 2 of the easiest ones are unwanted children and STDs/STIs. You are weird as fuck and clearly obsessed with dicks and also stupid because that last sentence made no sense xD

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 I doubt you are a woman. If you are, you need a big dick Black so you can get over yourself. Change your life, girl.

Either way, your mind has been colonized by small dick thinking. Only small dick incel idiots and a very small number of frustrated angry unhealthy bitches like you don't fully agree with the last sentence. A huge Black dick is basically infinitely more pleaurable than a small dick, be it white, Asian, or whatever. The pleasure is basically exponential with size. The thing with angry, insecure guys is you miss how normal it is to want the biggest dick Blacks. It wouldn't be about race except for the history and the fact that all the biggest dicks are Black. Girls are getting more and more clear that the biggest dick Blacks are the best for raw, animalistic sex even if we have a white or Asian or other boyfriend.

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 Maybe the issue is you aren't attractive enough to get a big dick Black for casual sex. I'm sorry if that's true. It's not my fault. Don't blame me for doing things any sexually healthy woman would want to do. It's not my fault that I look just like they want the most, and I own the fact I play up the white country girl slut angle. Stop oppressing other girls and the big dick Blacks. It's very normal to want to give our bodies to them. It's not just the pleasure - it's the racial healing they get from fucking us and breaking all the taboos assholes like you throw up. We're going to do this more and more. It's becoming more and more the default for the prettiest white girls to be sluts for only the biggest dick Blacks, even though a lot of us hide it except from our girlfriends with the same kinds of good looks. No wonder bitches like you disagree.

[PeachyPie93]

LOL I doubt you are pretty.. when like you say you are a slut with no self respect or standards.. You date a guy who uses you as porn slut.. A girl who was pretty and had self respect and loved herself would not degrade herself to men.. So you are just a troll with nothing to offer the world besides her holes.. have fun with that..

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 All you can do is like. I am a slut. That doesn't mean I lack self respect or standards. I have standards for what kind of man I will allow to use my body. It's only my boyfriend and the biggest dick Blacks. I love the feeling of subordination and racial service to huge dick Blacks who deserve to use me any way they want that I can handle. I'm very good looking and white with the pale skin, body type, and country pretty looks that drive them crazy, which is why I get them more than other women and why I get the ones who think they would never cheat. They are just as helpless to resist me and I am to resist them - the ones with the biggest Black dicks. I am great at a lot of things. This is just one. And a lot of girls are learning from me and girls like me that we can have all the big dick Blacks we can handle, and we don't have to give up our boyfriends or husbands to do it. That's what you're so insecure about. Male or female, you can't fucking compete, and you can't compete in fucking. Probably can't twerk a lick. How would you ever get a big dick Black being so ugly and bitter?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Girls, girls...

[PeachyPie93]

Bitch, if you were actually smart you would know dick is the easiest thing to get.. big dick, little dick, any dick.. it doesn't take skill it just takes a slut to spread her legs or cheeks, so get over yourself clown.. I have no reason to be jealous of a delusional man.. let alone one so retarded as to not bring anything to this waste of time discussion.. And you wish lololol Like I would ever be jealous of a dumb fuck with stretched out holes and the brains of a seven year old. I can have any dick I want all it takes is a bit of seduction but I am not interested it letting men use me for their pleasure since I'm not a cum bucket like you.. I much rather cut their dicks off and shove them down your throat since I know you can take it so well.

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 LOL you are a white clowning. Don't even. That's why you're so bothered that I push back. If you don't like it, do what I said and fuck the eff off. No big dick Black is giving you his dick and you don't know shit about seduction. Then with the crazy ass violence fantasies. You are a suck ass incel. Go suck ass, loser.

[PeachyPie93]

You are a white male loser who wishes black guys wanted you but they don't cuz no one wants an ugly anorexic pussy boy. I dated out of my race so it has nothing to do with being a racist. Its just I am sick of your stupid ass retarded comments all the time and unlike you there are men on here who can vouch for me as being a real person because they seen me and yes, I am actually a girl unlike you.

[Finchie40]

@PeachyPie93 , whoever that texascollegegirl is , either a Guy or Girl , they are a troll , so don’t let that troll effect ya in anyway , that troll has a brain that’s the size of a peanut , if any guy from any race or size was wise , and smart , they would keep their dick far far away from that shit, as much as possible. All that troll does, is try to convince people to believe in stupidity , to make he or herself feel better about themselves. It’s pathetic and comical at the same time. But sadly that troll needs some serious mental help

[texascollegegirl]

You're a sexist racist piece of shit, so you're not helping your bullshit friends.

[PeachyPie93]

@Finchie40 Yeah I know they NEED serious help lol.. I don't get why people on this site can't just behave normally.. and stop always trolling or spreading moronic stuff all the time, it gets annoying when you constantly see it..

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 LOLOLOL white dudes saying laddie and lassie and claiming to be 70 year old Blacks, totally normal LOLOLOL. whtie dudes claiming to be Hispanic gang guys and then saying all the same racist bullshit. Finchie spouting his woman hating bullshit every day. Peachypie who. can't stop lying to save "her" life. Nobody said anthing about degrading their lives or not having other interests and so on. You just hate Blacks.

[PeachyPie93]

@texascollegegirl You just mad cuz no one gives a fuck about you.. get over it weirdo and Finchie40 is normal and doesn't hate on woman.. we don't need to lie about stuff, since there are people like you who's whole persona is a lie.. A person who never mentioned their hobbies or anything in life except dick clearly doesn't have anything else.. and a slut is just garbage to the world.. if you died no one would care or miss you since there will be another gaping holed slut up the road.. You are nothing special and totally replaceable.. You should go find your dad because you clearly need some fatherly guidance..

[texascollegegirl]

@PeachyPie93 Nah I'm not mad I'm MAKING FUN of you. Also, you lie about everything.

[lorenzomichael]

Get your Dick on girl.🤣

[Little_Bumblebee]

Depends on the reason..

If he snores very loudly, it would probably end there unless his snoring could be fixed.
Otherwise I won't be able to fall asleep.

My grandparents slept separately for some time because my grandpa snored very loudly and at that time my grandma had to wake up really early to go to work.
So they slept in each of their own side of the house.

They were together for over 50 years, until my grandparents died.
Later when they retired they slept next to each other again.

[Finchie40]

I still wouldn’t want that with my partner , I would wear nose strips of that was the case

[Little_Bumblebee]

Sleeping separately would be the last solution. I would prefer to sleep together.
But sometimes you gotta find something that works.

[Finchie40]

I will just make sure I end up with a girl that wants to be by my side as much as possible

[Lliam]

Nope. I like sleeping together on a king size bed. I like spooning up against her, snuggling and holding her tits while we are both naked before we go to sleep. I like being able to spoon up against her when we wake up and have a morning fuck. No muss, no fuss, no need to remove clothes. Sex would seem formal if we slept in separate rooms. We couldn't be spontaneous. We couldn't even hug or touch each other unless we had an appointment.

Once we are asleep on our separate sides of the bed, I love knowing she is there. I feel lonely without her beside me. I like the sound of her breathing and her movements don't disturb me.

[lorenzomichael]

Yeah I would. But only if she wanted to sleep in another room because she snored loud as fuck. Like if there was thunder in the room.

[SueShe]

I would only stay with a partner if I can have my own room to sleep and that I can lock from the inside.

There is a time for fornication and there is a time to sleep. That sleep needs to be undisturbed, quiet and certainly not to be awaken in the middle of the REM sleep phase just because that partner has the urge to copulate.

However, I would never marry in the first place because in today's society and lack of morals, marriage has no reason to be.

You can get all the hugs and kisses during dedicated time before retiring to sleep but I would never tolerate forniction to take place in my bedroom.

This is for my private space only and not to spoil the sheets that would have to be changed before sleeping. I am tired enough at the end of the day without needing the extra work of disinfecting everything and changing the sheets.

[an0nymiss1]

omg are you me? lol

[SueShe]

@an0nymiss1 Could I have found my alter ego? 😅

[Anonymous]

Personally no.
I got married because I want to share my life with him. I want to talk on the bed until we both fall asleep, so I won’t feel lonely. Enjoy our free time together, doing his hobby together. Not just to get marriage certificate.

[Finchie40]

I agree , unfortunately for me , my marriage didn’t turn out the way I thought it would , but my wife and I always slept I. The same bed until we ended things , so my next girl I hope is way better than her. I am not going to g to get married again for a long ass time

[Raphaëlle]

I like snuggling and all that but if someone's quality of sleep would be better when sleeping separately? Definitely. If sleeping schedules and quality of sleep wouldn't match it could be an option. Sleep is important. I'm grumpy and easier to irritate if I sleep poorly a couple of days in a row or longer.

[sage2021]

If the other person snores and keeps waking you up all night then yes, separate rooms with the door closed!! 🔐

[Altheavas]

That is not ground for divorce for me, we just need to set rules to be available to each other. Depends on our lifestyle.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yeah. If they want their own space, they can have it. Plus, it's not like we can't share beds together anymore. Or if we have different sleeping schedules and ways then we can both have it.

[PeachyPie93]

I wouldn't want a relationship like that because its lonely. Tho stuff like that is common so I might accept it if it could be worked past and we end up in the same bed again.

[On_cloud_wine]

I do t even know my future partner but I want my own room regardless 🤷

[Juxtapose]

Even if there was a really good reason the situation would feel really hurtful and I just don't want to settle for something like that.

[Kelley1]

Not in twenties. Perhaps in my sixties and above I would.

[an0nymiss1]

totally up to you and your partner. what’s acceptable to one couple/ partner may not be for the next. for example i personally would hate sleeping in the same bed with someone indefinitely-would 100% need separate rooms for myself.

[Slim57]

Yeah, I do that now with my girlfriend, she stays the night with me in my room til bedtime then goes to her room, I move around a lot when I sleep so it's hard to sleep with me, I don't mind it, we both get better sleep that way

[CarolinaGirl5]

No. what's the point of marriage then?

[Finchie40]

Exactly , a husband and wife’s’ bedroom is their sanctuary, a place for them to have quality time together , and the feel closer together , if my wife didn’t want to be by my side , I would feel like what is even the point of us being married to belong with ,

[Anonymous]

Amazing that you two aren't together anymore lmao.

[Finchie40]

We are just living together for financial reasons and for the kids’ our kids’ are almost on their own cuz they are older now , then we are going to sell the home and go our separate ways , we don’t hate each other we just no longer see eye to eye on things and no longer in love with each other we don’t hate each other , we just want different things ,

[Finchie40]

I am never getting married again , not for a long ass time

[Anonymous]

yes. if they snore, they need to get the heck out. i don't play with my sleep.

[LiamJHayden]

I am such a light sleeper that this would be a requirement.

[Anonymous]

I'm in same situation sleeping separately rooms

But we're not separated


If this keeps up we will be separated


What will things be like if start new relationship?

Would things in the house become bitter?

[Apple1996]

Nope I like sleeping with my partner

[beefcakebradybatson]

H**L to the NO !!!

[WowGIrl4ever]

If there was kids probably

[jahaims]

Nope

[animesenpai]

Hell to the no

[Anonymous]

Kick her out!! 😎