Would you stay in a relationship with someone that didn’t want to share a bed with you?

[Finchie40]

Me personally wants my partner next to me in bed , when my ex stopped sleeping with me, it raised some questions of concern, and it was pretty much the start of the end of our relationship, because I felt she was up to no good , she said it was because I snore , which I thought was a load of shit. I told the girl i am dating now , what my ex did to me , and she said that’s not a reason to stop sleeping next to your partner , and that she was just using that as an excuse. She said she doesn’t care if I snore louder than a chainsaw , she wants to be by my side no matter what. So do you think my
Ex was talking out her ass? I am also hearing similar stories from people at work that said when their partner stopped sleeping with them , they knew the relationship was over. Would you stay in a relationship with your partner if they all of a sudden stopped sleeping with you on a regular basis?

[new-person]

My dad snored real loud, but my mom still did sleep in the same bed as him.

My experience, yes as my ex wife started to be more distant and more and more intimatesy was lost, the more I started to see she was cheating.
Staying over an HR after work, then acting like she just has sex when I picked her up from work. Some days she wash her underwear as soon as we got home. The list goes on.

One thing to remember/know (a change in behavior = a change in feeling or opinion) go over what happened just before the new behavior started and what happened when it did start. If you can't find something you then got to look at other new behaviors and if there is any lost interest that they normally did like that you both enjoyed doing together?

And sometimes as they cheat they are slow to decide and so this behavior will rise slowly over a long period of time as they slowly choose to pursue the new relationship (cheat) and move away from you.

In the end, trust in your gut feeling.

[OlderAndWiser]

A vital difference between a friend and a romantic partner is the physical intimacy in a relationship. That is not just sex; it is kissing, holding hands, and going to sleep together. Don't wanna be physically close? Okay, you're just a roommate. Go sleep in another room and start paying half of all the bills.

[sage2021]

A person can be very much in love and want to be by their side as much as possible.
However, sleeping 💤 😴 with someone who wakes me up all throughout the night isn't doing me any favors or showing me any love by waking me and just to wake him up to tell him to stop 🛑 snoring. Rinse and repeat all night long, every night for 365 nights per year.
Another thing is that when you are waking someone up with your snoring you are throwing off their circadian sleep system rhythm - which is bad for a person's health and can give them health problems that they don't even know is caused by their circadian sleep rhythm system being broken.
Google it please. 🥺

[Noredcarpet]

No offense but it depend on the snooring. Snooring can be torture to someone else who needs to sleep. I would keep the main bedroom as it was, still have intimacy but leave or have the partner leave to sleep, snoore in another room. But my guess is with you two other factors played a role too to make her act like that. Hope it works out with your date and all :)

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the age-old bed-battle dilemma! 🛏️ Sharing a bed can be quite intimate, and when your partner wants to snooze elsewhere, it can raise some serious red flags. If it's a snoring issue, there are plenty of ways to find a solution. If the person's intentions are unclear or seem suspicious, it could hint at deeper issues. Trust your gut, sugar, and open up some communicative dialogue before you start ghosting! Remember, a supportive partner, like your current one, who doesn't mind your snore symphony, is a precious find! 😉💕

[pervertedjester]

Only for medical reasons. I can't sleep on a mattress because of my back. (Too Soft) Otherwise I'd Run!

[AgentG111]

Yeah the minute somebody that you're in a relationship with doesn't want to sleep in the same bed without some sort of reason or cause being sick and trying to keep the other person up instead of let him get rest a bad case of snoring that you can't figure out but when it comes to the point of there's other issues there going on and into Missy has a complete stop to it. There's definitely beyond red flags that person's walking around wrapped in Red!

[Anonymous]

Yes. Go watch interviews with couples that have been in successful, happy marriages for 40+ years. Most of them say, "the secret to a happy marriage is separate beds". Before I got married, I didn't believe this. After I got married, I can see their point.

[RubyRed12343]

I can't stand snoring, but I won't just leave my partner lol, I'd stuff his nose, wake him up or do smth about it. But I'd definitely want to sleep with him lol

[NathanDavis]

I only go into a relationship with someone I am compatible with...

that's the point of a relationship...

[queenofcardio]

Damn.. That ex really traumatized you.

Snoring can be tolerable. I prefer to share a bed with my partner

[Anonymous]

You're right
I speak from experience
I stopped sleeping in the bed with my wife before I started having sex with another woman

Then that stopped and I moved back in with my wife

After about 18 months we started having sex again

It's been a rollercoaster of emotion

I still don't know what's going to happen

[VioletHaze]

If they struggle sleeping because I snore, I would understand or at least let them fall asleep first. Sleep is important. But if they suddenly stopped, I'd be a bit worried things aren't as they should be.

[dragoblack]

No. Usually means she fell out of love and doesn't know how to break it off... or is just trying to hint it

[Anonymous]

I personally don't like sharing a bed with anyone when I sleep. Men tend to be the one who snore, not women. I also have chronic insomnia so its not a good idea for me to sleep next to someone who snores.

[jaecifer]

Absolutely not. There would be such a sense of detachment.

[robocop666]

you are traumatised by your ex. sell your house and never talk again.

[qwerty2469]

Absolutely. The happiest couples sleep separately. I haven't slept in bed with my wife in 10 years. The bed is for sex.

[Finchie40]

if it works for you , that's all that matters , me personally wants my partner by my side

[White_Stain00]

No, I cannot accept something like that in marriage.

[KrisKris81]

Depends on the reason - mostly no

[Alex-Snow]

I want someone next to me

[Anonymous]

No, absolutely not.

[beefcakebradybatson]

H**L to the NO !!!

[thegreenyogi]

Never.

[Imjustagirl1520]

Yeah for sure, thats how i want it in my future.