Would you be concerned if your partner didn't want to sleep in the same bed as you?

[Anonymous]

Not once in a while but on a regular basis

Yes

No

[Finchie40]

Yes, especially if it occurs on a steady basis when it was never an issue before , she wants space from you for a reason , it could mean she is cheating on you or planning to cheat on you , or she no longer feels safe and secure by you. Don’t jump to conclusion before you talk to her about it first if she gives you a lame reason as to why? Kick her ass to the curb where she belongs

[OlderAndWiser]

It would depend on the reason. I have been told by several women that I snore loudly and one of them said she could not sleep soundly when I was snoring. At times, I would sleep in a different bedroom so that she could get some rest, but we were still doing the horizontal mambo on a regular basis.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Depends on why. We had a separate bed situation briefly during postpartum, that was worrying but more for health reasons than for relationship reasons. I knew it was only temporary & mainly cuz of the hormone crash.

Some couples just do better with separate bedrooms tho. As long as there's communication about it & it works for both people I wouldn't be concerned.

[Apple1996]

Very concerned I need my partner to sleep with me

[Fireguy17]

my wife and I have not for a number of years.
It is called a sleep divorce.
She snores wors than a lumberjack, I can't sleep at all.
My FD pager goes off at all hours, so I have to get up and fly out of the house at any given hour and that wakes her up.

[Slim57]

Honestly not really, I like to get all the sleep I can, so I can understand if a partner can't handle snoring, or dealing with someone who moves around a lot while sleeping like me, sleepwalkers, or talkers in their sleep. As long as we cuddle or hug and kiss and tell each other goodnight, just her being in the same house with me is good enough.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

If it's because they sleep better by themselves than with someone else, then I wouldn't question it much. Some people like to share a bed and others don't.

[Zenpanda]

I wouldn't be, because I honestly don't sleep well next to someone either. I start paying attention to every little noise they make, even their breathing. Not to mention movements.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I want a husband, not just a roommate.

[natured]

Yes, if there is no particular reason then Yes, I would honestly question a lot and second guess our relationship too.

[DrPepper12]

Sharing a bed is a STUPID tradition that is explained here:

https://dustyoldthing. com/couples-really-sleep-in-separate-beds/

Let's return to separate bedrooms.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. As long as we come together for some adult time 😈

[ProbablyClueless]

That would most likely be extremely concerning, yes.

[Anonymous]

I question it now when we got back together. Even though in a long distance thing, Where do I fit in now?

[LiamJHayden]

I wouldn't because I am a super light sleeper and if she moved at all I would awaken. It would drive both of us crazy.

[Hanrej]

Unless she gave a specific reason like snoring or kicking in my sleep, yes that would be concerning.

[Anonymous]

no. more room for me. what does this say about me?

[Anonymous]

No. I'm a light sleeper. If she tosses and turns I'd probably prefer she sleep somewhere else. Nothing personal.

[Cheerfull009]

If once no problem, but if it is regular, I will quit her

[luvstoned4him]

Yes and my mind will be filled with many questions

[msss98]

Depends for the reason

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like something worthy of concern

[jahaims]

Yeah