How do you confront a cheating boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Should you gather proof first, or just go with your gut and ask him directly? How would you handle it if he denies everything?

[Finchie40]

Get proof first , without proof you really don’t have anything to use to defend yourself , so it’s best to gather proof before confronting them on it. Cheaters usually lie when they are confronted and make up excuses for their actions , once a cheater knows you are onto them , they will cover their tracks even more to make it harder for you to bust them. So once you have proof , they are like a deer caught in headlights, cuz they know they are busted. So it will come down to you on what you want to do from there , on whether you want to give them another chance or dump them and move on that’s up to you to decide

[ohsheeT]

Well that's the whole thing is he's going to deny it if you don't have the proof

If you knew a questions to ask him he would tell you the truth the same breath that he's telling you a a lie if you can read eyes read body language tone of voice his complexion you could tell if a guy is lying in a heartbeat

[Anonymous]

What I did was I calmly asked him straight up to give him a chance to calm clean. He kept on lying so I presented all the proof that I’ve gathered and stayed quiet then walked away.

[Flower7]

Have proof first. A cheater would never answer honestly if you just randomly ask them.

[diamond]

First of all, make sure you have proof and stay calm. Express your feelings clearly but don't buy into his excuses. If he's cheating, he doesn't value you as much as you should. Don't embarrass yourself, don't hesitate to ask him for an explanation but most importantly, don't forget that you deserve to be with someone who knows your value.

[Asker]

staying calm and knowing your worth is key

[comedy]

Ask for honesty and express how hurt you feel. Don’t settle for excuses or blame-shifting. You deserve the truth and to decide what’s best for you whether that’s leaving or trying to heal.

[Asker]

thanks for advice

[beams]

Focus on learning the truth, not cornering him. If he is cheating, he has no respect for the relationship anyway. Know your own worth, make your decision based on his explanation, but remember, once trust is broken, it is hard to repair.

[Asker]

Thankss

[Nikki1989]

If you have evidence of his infidelity, gather it discreetly before flying off the handle.

[GlowUpGirly5]

What good is confronting him? What proof? What are you hoping to accomplish? Why won't you just leave?

He doesn't like you, he cheated on you, he knows he's cheated so what's your point? Lol

[FunnyButNotFunnyHaHa]

Gather proof first.

That way he can't tell you that you're imagining things.

What proof do you have?

[Oldschool1981]

I'm pretty passive towards cheating. My wife has been dating the side with the same guy for 11 years

[admles]

Make sure you have 100% undeniable, definitive proof.

Then, break him with him, and show him said proof. Don't listen to any excuses, just end it, and cut them out of your life ASAP.

[exitseven]

Get the goods on him. It might take longer but you do not want to make a mistake.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I will gather evidence and hit him in the face, calling out his shamelessness.

[Anonymous]

It's always wise to have solid evidence. You'll only come off as a raving luny otherwise.

[DrPepper12]

95% preparation

5% Volume, indignation, rage, relief and lotsa Sistas as witness

[Wise4myage]

Yes, get the proof first, then confront him and dump him.

[beefcakebradybatson]

By telling him (ala the Backstreet Boys),"Bye, Bye, Bye!!!"

[WowGIrl4ever]

Start sexting his friend

[Kingofkings1992]

Don’t. Just leave

[Anonymous]

Plain and simply: no blowjob for one week

[Brady]

get good proof 1st