He said come to my house and bring champagne let’s sleep , is he crazy?

[Sera111]

We were talking more than one year but As he’s far away we were not going a lot, but he kept saying I like u …. Once he came to my town , he said come to my house and bring champagne let’s have make love, I couldn’t sleep with him, he didn’t buy me anything 4 my birthday! he didn’t even call me! Now he keep liking my photos!!! I msgs him but he didn’t answer!!
what should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah girl, that sounds like a super sketchy situation. I mean, just inviting you over to "sleep" and expecting you to bring champagne? That's a red flag if I've ever seen one.

And the fact that he didn't even call or get you anything for your birthday? And now he's just liking your photos but not responding to your messages? Yikes, that's not cool at all.

I get that you've been talking for a while and you maybe have feelings for this guy, but his behavior is seriously questionable. It sounds like he's just trying to use you for a hookup, without putting in any real effort or respect for the relationship.

My advice would be to take a step back and really evaluate whether this guy is worth your time and energy. He's clearly not making you a priority, and he seems to have some really unhealthy expectations about intimacy.

I know it's hard, but you gotta look out for yourself, girl. You deserve someone who's going to treat you right, not just hit you up for a booty call. Maybe it's time to cut this guy loose and focus on finding someone who'll appreciate you for who you are.

Just my two cents, but I really think you should trust your gut on this one. You don't need that kind of shady behavior in your life. Stay strong, and don't settle for anything less than you deserve!

[Anonymous]

You need to grow up. 35?

Yeah, I hope not.

[strateguy632]

Wait a full day.