He wants to wine and dine me and get a hotel?

We have never even kissed before he says he doesn't want sex but I am concerned if I let him pay for everything and spent the night he is expecting more than I am ready for right now. How do I approach this so I don't insult him but still feel safe and keep the possibility open in the future. I want to spend time with him and I am attracted to him and we have known each other for about 5 years as friends and sometimes more but jumping so quick feels scary
He wants to wine and dine me and get a hotel?
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