He wants to meet me in a hotel instead of his place; what do you think?

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I have been seeing a man that lives in a neighboring city for about a month. I went to his house before, now he wants to meet half way in a hotel. He is willing to pay but for some reason I feel sleazy about this and I am not sure why. He claims he needs a "break" from working on his house and being at home.

The last time we were together I got the "I don't want any attachments" speech and pretty much the relationship seems to be focused around sex. I really wish I could have more so I feel a hotel is so impersonal, however, I really like this guy and don't know him well enough for there to have much more developed. I feel he is uncomfortable bringing me to his house as this must mean some sort of attachment thing for him.

I have never met anyone in a hotel unless it was a boyfriend and I was already dating them.
He wants to meet me in a hotel instead of his place; what do you think?
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