A guy who wants to meet up at hotel?

[poops]

I don't know him but soon he would come to my country, near to my hometown. We don't know each other till he send me a message in one website and we talked to each other very short. Then he keeps sending me a message and asking me to meet up. I feel like I want to meet him but when he said meet him at hotel.. Well nope, I'm scared tho that he would do anything. What do you think his motive btw? He's older than me like almost 10 years I guess.

[lalamixx]

Really? And asking this question would change what exactly? dont meet him or things can go south real fast. Be careful. Why at the hotel? Why not a food court or someplace opened.

A) Rape
B) Or you might end up in a black bag chopped to pieces.

Sorry I sound a bit harsh; but you just don't trust people and take their words for it especially someone you don't know. He's coming in from another country (red flag); sending short messaged (red flag) meet st the hotel?(ultra red alarm)
Sister!!! He'll be long gone to wherever he came from before you find out that he's pulled a fast one on you or even before they find your body.

If its that bad, act like you're looking forward to seeing him but he can meet you halfway. Make sure it's in an open place where people can keep an eye on him ( given that he doesn't know where you live).

[poops]

Yeah you're right.. That's the things that i'm scared of. I don't know why he wanted to meet up at hotel. First when before he asked to meet up, he asked me to be his private tour guide when he's in my country and i was like "do you think i don't have anything to do?" and well i said no to him but then he asked it right away and i was like "nope". I didn't say anything about where i live.

[lalamixx]

If I were you I'll block him. There are plenty men that would appreciate your personality. Trust yourself and live by principles. We are not that desperate, if he'll meet someone then he can make new friends. Goodluck.

[poops]

Anyway thanks :)

[Anonymous]

why would u meet him u haven't even had a proper convo with him so what makes u think he wants anything more to do with u in real life other then sex?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

First time meet up at a hotel? Sex sex and more sex

[poops]

I guess so it would goes there..

[sawno]

Bad signs , only ever meet someone from the net if you know them deeply.
The girl i met (The only internet friend i ever met) online and spend a day with i knew very well in and out. She felt like a sister to me and we literally knew everything about each other and could tell each other anything. When i finally met her in real life everything was exactly the same as it had been online and we had great fun.

In your scenario though it seems the exact opposite, rather then taking intrest in your as a person this supposedly 10 year older guy wants to meet up insanely badly. Looks to me he is out for the physical you, not the real you.

I´d say stay away from this one. I am not assuming he will force anything on you but he will probably pressure you into stuff.

[usuallydominant]

wow, people really do think the worst of others.

could it be possible that since he's traveling, staying in a hotel, that he doesn't know where else to meet? Does he want to hook up for sex, very likely but that isn't bad in itself.

tell him there is a starbucks, or a 7/11, circle K, bookstore, cafe down the street and meet there. OR meet him in the lobby and do not go to the room until/unless you're planning to hook up too.

[poops]

I would think that way if i can be positive but nah it's more negative thinking tho

[Iron_Man]

Very bad Idea he just wants to set it up where he can pay for a one bed in one room kind of deal so you can have sex together. Meet him at the mall

[poops]

Yeah i guess it would goes there... But i did stop talking with him after i say no and i'm kinda bored with the website then i deactive the account

[Iron_Man]

Well ok problem solved looks like Its a done deal now

[poops]

Yeaa but i'm kinda scared about it.. Feel insecure

[Iron_Man]

You just said>>>> i'm kinda bored with the website then i deactive the account... So that being said you no longer have to talk or meet him

[poops]

I know.. But he can see how i look like and pretty scary IF he would looking for me.. Moreover he's in my hometown._.

[Iron_Man]

I think you should just let it go. The chances of you running into him are very rare

[poops]

Yeah you're right.. Thanks hehe

[Iron_Man]

Good luck and you are very welcome

[Grant101]

Don't meet him he's probably a 50 year old paedophile

[poops]

Yea i've told him i don't want to and we stop talked to each other and well i delete my profile actually

[Grant101]

That's a good idea

[poops]

Yea pretty scary tho

[jacquesvol]

Or just his neighbor's dog

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[poops]

Lol so funny i'm gonna cry._. @jacquesvol

[jacquesvol]

On the internet you never know.
NEVER

[poops]

Yeah indeed @jacquesvol

[jacquesvol]

Or a lonesome soul: https://i43.tinypic.com/2ujknxy.jpg

[poops]

Yeah you're right @jacquesvol

[blondfrog]

Good don't that is a bad idea if you talked for a long time and he seemed like a very nice guy well that's different, but only from one message? Terrible idea

[1685684378994]

That is very risky, I would not go if I was you.

[poops]

Yeah agree with you

[HelinHood]

Don't meet him. It sounds like dangerous

[poops]

Yea thanks for warn me.. I've told him not to meet up

[HelinHood]

Then it's okay :) You're welcome

[jacquesvol]

At least, he's honest about his aim.

[poops]

I know but well it's pretty scary if ypu can imagine this world really evil rn

[jacquesvol]

Wanting sex isn't that evil.

[poops]

I mean not that... The other thing that can be kidnap or something

[jacquesvol]

Don't wear panties: he'll save time.

[Anonymous]

You mean you don't know? Yeah he wants to meet and bake cookies.

[poops]

Yea it's like you're sending message to strangers on Facebook and asking to meet up at hotel near your hometown, how's that? You never talked with that person, even if you do, it's just like "hi" "how are you" just that

[Findingmyway]

BAD idea.. And potentially dangerous.

[breastman69]

Well he just wants to fuck U of course as many times as often as U will let him. Go fore it Baby !!

[Anonymous]

he wants to bang you and you should do it because you want to toooooo

[Alexzktra]

Jesus FUCK DO NOT MEET HIM

[jacquesvol]

Some girls really want rape fantasies to happen, say rapists.

[Alexzktra]

what the fuck does that mean don't talk to me about rape fantasies

[jacquesvol]

"Jesus FUCK DO NOT MEET HIM" Nice double entendre!
"Jesus FUCK"
"DO NOT MEET HIM"
"Jesus?" DO NOT MEET HIM"
"Jesus FUCK (s), DO NOT MEET HIM"

[Alexzktra]

um yr really disturbing and creepy fuck off thanks

[Maxemeister]

Don't date a guy ten years older than you!!!

[SnowHearth]

Do not go.