Have breaks in relationships ever helped, or do they just make things more complicated?

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o people who have taken a break in their relationships, did it actually help improve things?

I’m struggling in my relationship right now and I’m considering suggesting a break to give us both some space. Should I try that, or if I’m already thinking about it, is it time to just end things? Any advice?

Jhoward · Accepted Answer

IA few years back my then boyfriend suggested that we take a break we did. We'll I'm a very sexual woman and I was really needing some dick. The next day I get a visit from one of his friends checking in on me. I let him in made us a drink and looked him in the eye told him how horny I was and that I've always wanted him to fuck me. He is so hot and has a body that's all solid muscle wrapped tightly in his beautiful black skin. He told me that he is going to give me what I need and I'll never look back and he will always be my first choice to fuck. Ŵhat he did to me in bed that day and into the night and again in the morning was just unbelievable. I didn't know my body was capable of having so many orgasms and I would shake uncontrollably and my crys of pleasure got loud he then kissed my mouth while he just came in me so hard and so much. I knew that I was his and so did he

Me and my old boyfriend tried to get things going but he just didn't do it for me wrong size and color

So take that break from each other and keep your eyes open you might get a nice surprise.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

My first breakup was an educational experience -- I learned what a respectful breakup was and we're still friends today.

My second breakup was also an educational experience in the other direction -- that you need to have 911 on call when dealing with violent guys.

My third breakup taught me about gaslighting... and why dating nowadays isn't really all it's cracked up to be.

Comprehensive lesson from all the above is that it's better to be alone than with the wrong person.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

From my experience it NEVER works long term because all that resentment you have is still there , if you really want to save it some form of counselling is probably more productive.
The only thing I'd say is don't stay together for fear of being alone and Do you really want to save it? As in , does it mean that much to you?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If a partner needs a break , the relationship is already over , the only thing it helps, is breaking up with that person faster , never go back to someone that needs a break from you period

creativewritings · Answer

Taking a break can sometimes help couples gain perspective, but it can also complicate things if not communicated clearly. If you're considering it, make sure both of you are on the same page about the purpose and boundaries of the break. It can give you time to reflect and reassess, but it’s not a guaranteed fix. If you're already thinking about ending things, it might be a sign that the relationship isn’t fulfilling your needs. Trust your instincts and be honest with yourself about what’s best for you both.

adriano · Answer

Taking a break in a relationship can sometimes provide clarity, but it can also make things more complicated. It depends on the reason for the break and how both partners handle it. If there are unresolved issues, space alone won’t fix them without real communication. A break might help if both of you are feeling overwhelmed and need time to reflect. However, if you’re already thinking about ending things, it might be a sign that deeper issues exist. Consider discussing your feelings openly first sometimes, a direct conversation is more effective than a temporary separation.

diamond · Answer

Taking a break can sometimes create more confusion rather than solving anything. If you're already considering it, it might indicate that the relationship is facing deeper issues. A break often leads to more distance and uncertainty, rather than clarity. Instead of taking time apart, have an honest conversation about your feelings. If you can’t resolve things together, it might be time to move on.

SyainR888 · Answer

Maybe you should take a break so he can finally find someone that deserves him.
a break means technically I wanna break up without saying break up. Maybe y’all found someone better but if there’s a kid involved nobody will ever wife a girl with baggage but a man always finds his queen and because 100x better in every form because he gives up to push you away on purpose And the person he deserves is waiting there for him. Probably a huge upgrade and way more attractive than you are. Y’all should take a break 😂

AnonAndrew · Answer

I can't rule out that they have helped someone sometime, but I think in most cases they just make things worse. Better to just end things.

exitseven · Answer

I think that when somebody wants to take a break, it just means that they are looking to date somebody else.

dudeinohio · Answer

Breaks are proof you cannot sustain a committed relationship. You just don't call a time out every time things get rough. It likely will help nothing.

pav616 · Answer

Id say more complicated in the long run. I feel like you do learn something about yourself and your partner during a break. Unfortunately its not always a good thing

Brandi555 · Answer

I feel like maybe you’ll realize you miss that person. Like you never know what you’ve got till it’s gone? Then you get back together. I don't know.

No_Engineer · Answer

Yes, break up and stay that way. Stay single;stay safe.

Ariesman81 · Answer

Stage 5 clinger eh?

msc545 · Answer

A break is the same as a breakup.

Have breaks in relationships ever helped, or do they just make things more complicated?

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