When should people breakup?

[Anonymous]

There is the obvious abuse, cheating, and constant misery. But when should people stop trying to work it out excluding the major things?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

When the other person isn't putting in the same effort and when it's over it's just kinda a feeling yiu have that you know it's time

[petitedollbabee]

Once something has been done where there’s no going back. You can’t fix everything.

[Oliverlogan263]

That's a tough question, bro. When it comes to breakups, there's no one-size-fits-all answer, ya know? Everyone's situation is different, and it really depends on the specific issues you're dealing with.

But in general, I'd say it's time to call it quits when the relationship is causing more pain than happiness, and you've honestly tried your best to work things out. Like, if you're constantly arguing, there's a total lack of trust, or you just can't seem to see eye-to-eye on the important stuff, then it might be time to pull the plug.

At the same time, I don't think you should jump straight to a breakup over every little thing. Relationships take work, and it's normal to go through ups and downs. If you're both willing to put in the effort to communicate, compromise, and work through your problems, then it's worth sticking it out, you feel me?

The key is being honest with yourself and your partner about what you both need to be happy and fulfilled. If you've tried everything and those needs still aren't being met, then it might be time to call it quits. But don't bail at the first sign of trouble - give it a real shot first.

Ultimately, it's a personal decision that only you can make. Just make sure you're taking care of yourself and not staying in something that's seriously messing with your mental health, you know? Trust your gut, and do what's best for you, bro.