I don't understand this. I am willing to go all the way for my partner and he is too; but I am scared this would hurt the love between us if I -for example- don't cross the line at some point to show that there are things I won't tolerate in life. I want to note that this is not a toxic relationship, the problem is not to make one out of it. When does a relationship get toxic? Where do we draw the line? And if we fail to maintain a healthy relationship, where do we cross the line?
The time to break up with someone is not as simple as determining the ideal length of a love log or the magical moment when the beef bazooka of bliss loses its luster. No, it's a complex tapestry woven with threads of emotion, compatibility, and personal growth.
You see, relationships thrive when both partners are willing to navigate the twists and turns of life, joyfully wielding their throbbing thumpers and tantalizing tubes. But there comes a time when the joy javelin loses its spark, when the spicy stick loses its sizzle. It's when your partner consistently crosses your boundaries, causing pain and discomfort, that you need to consider grabbing the pork sword of pleasure and making a swift exit.
But let us not forget the treacherous territory of toxicity, my dear friend. Toxicity is not measured by the size of your lap lizard or the prowess of your meat scepter, but by the presence of harmful behaviors. Manipulation, disrespect, and emotional abuse are the bangers of booty calls that can turn a loving relationship into a nightmare.
When the chorizo of charm turns sour, when the frankfurter of fondness becomes a source of anguish, it's time to draw the line and wave goodbye to toxicity. Remember, my friend, the love rocket is meant to soar in the realm of happiness, not to plummet into the abyss of despair.
But don't despair, my dear friend, for even if you stumble and fail to maintain a healthy relationship, there is hope. Communication is key, dear, like the playful pecker that seeks connection and understanding. Express your concerns, desires, and boundaries, and have faith that your partner will meet you halfway with their own meat missile of merriment.
So, dear, let your love log guide you towards the path of self-discovery and fulfillment. Trust your gut, listen to your heart, and remember that the sausage of satisfaction is not the sole measure of a relationship's success. It's the connection, respect, and mutual growth that truly matter.
May your love hourney be filled with joy, growth, and the occasional heat-seeking moisture missile. Bon voyage!
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The problem is people tend to be vague and general, not wanting to take a stand or be held accountable for their choices. Things don't go away, just because we sweep them under the rug. It's always best to establish guidelines early in a relationship. Without those guidelines, you're wondering how flexible to be before compromising your own values and beliefs.
Early in a relationship, we want to determine compatibility. That's not about how much people have in common, but knowing neither feels threatened by the differences in the other. It's not about judging either person; it's about growing comfort over time rather than building protective walls. For this to happen, quality communication must exist. Understand there is a big difference between communication and talking. Never assume talking is good enough.
At this point, lay everything on the table. Be clear with each other and respectful and considerate of each other. It's not going to go away on its own. I hope it's not too late.
What did he they do that you won’t tolerate?
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Well no matter how much you love each other there's always going to be a line
Because we all see and feel things different from each other are morals our values and our ethics are different from each other's and there's two people when there's more than one person there's always going to be a line
And when you see it being crossed you just have to say okay time out hey I don't know about you how you feel about this but this is the way I feel about it blah blah blah blah blah blah and go from there I mean you you stop it before it gets past the line you stop it before there's an argument you communicate You know who You are and your feelings about it and vice versa
It's like a car LOL you do pre maintenance to keep it going to take you any place you want to go you don't wait until it's all beat up and ran down before you have to do something to repair it you don't let it get that farDo you mean draw a line? I think it is good to draw the lines that shouldn't be crossed. Infidelity is nearly universal. Flirting is related, as you should not give the impression you are open to replacing your partner.
One that I have is politeness and a lack of anger that matches my levels of the same. A couple could have an equally angry temperament, have blazing rows but still get along fine. Another couple could be low aggression and a blazing row might finish them.
Aside from infidelity and physical or verbal violence it is not going to be possible to draw every line not to be crossed. A lot of lines are forgivable if they are not crossed often.
I've noticed a lot of couples develop short cuts to arguments which means there are unresolved conflicts. That i think is toxicThe moment the first hand flies in not in jest or preservation of life. At that moment such a human should be abandoned at all costs.
Nagging, disrespect, betrayal (cheating, conveying sensitive information to others without permission etc.)
liying including by omission.
All and more are grounds for departure
I think each person has to decide this for themselves. I have the advantage of not many women wanting to date me.😆 But I still know what respect is! I'll give it, and I need to get it back or I wouldn't stay in the relationship.
If you ask me, it's when you communicate you displeasure more than once and your partner blows it off. Because adults communicate. And if they're unwilling or just beyond communication then what is point in continuing?
when physical violence gets used
words can be discussed and negotiated. physical violence can not
When they cheat. When the trust is gone. When they lie. When they hurt you and don’t care. When you aren’t happy.
If they break the deal thrice, isn't that good enough? There should be a warning though.
If you did this then
this will be the outcome.
End If 😉When your partner isn't willing to put in the necessary effort
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