Is my ex happy married?

[Anonymous]

My ex keeps bringing up our past relationship and the woulda, could, shoulda when I moved on a decade ago after our divorce

We co parent and only have a relationship because of this I travel and thriving solo , but it doesn't seem like he's happily married. We ended because he cheated on me and wasn't mature still isn't and his current marriage is full of drama.

[slatyb]

Stop discussing anything unrelated to your child.

[Asker]

Where did you get that I discuss anything unrelated to our daughter? Maybe stop projecting... why do you men create unnecessary drama? All my ex has to do is pick up and drop off our daughter, but he can't do that. He has to create drama and his wife too.. I'm the sole custody of our daughter - legal stuff is handled in court which we're getting ready to go back too

[Asker]

Sounds like this guy can't get over what we had when we divorced 12 years ago.. he's remarried. I would feel some type of way too when your current wife can't give you any kids and you're watching the mother of your child happy and thriving.. sounds like jealousy and regret. Maybe he's regretting losing his family and not really happy with his current wife.

[Asker]

Plenty of times she has told me how unhappy she is and he keeps talking about me and what we had during heated moments about our daughter. They have to convince themselves they're married lol.. he addresses his wife as "my wife" when he's talking to me lol.. I'm so glad his wife is dealing with him and I'm free 🤸🤸🤸🤸

[Asker]

Sounds like he should ditch his wife and get therapy... she needs therapy too

[slatyb]

Why do you know any of this? Is your child reporting it?

[Asker]

My ex has told me this...

[ravagesavage]

I'm surprised he's still in your life.

[Asker]

We co parent, but if I could get rid of him I would...7 more years

[ravagesavage]

Well, yeah I get that. It's a little too much communication for me. Either way, seems like some of his old habits are trying to come back up again. Good things you're not taking the bait at least, so good on you.

[Asker]

Oh yeah him and wife create unnecessary drama lol meanwhile I'm getting ready to move and thriving in my business