Hi. I've been dating this guy for two years. He has 2 kids from a previous marriage. and no, They didn't cheat on each other, and neither did I home wreck. I didn't know him at the time. They mutually agreed that divorce would be great. They co-parent which is good however I feel like he still may have feelings for her. They are very friendly with each other. They make jokes together and sometimes I feel left out. A few weeks ago we were at his uncle's funeral. Her car didn't start and as we were leaving he stopped, screwed down his window, and asked if she was good. She explained what happened and he parked and went to help her. As he was leaving, he gave her a hug and kissed his kids. When he came in I told him that I didn't like the hug. He explained that it was a friendly hug and nothing more. Whenever they call each other, I hear him say "Love you" or "Love you too" after he says to tell the kids that he loves them when they are with her. Sometimes I would see that he reads her WhatsApp status and he posted her up last mothers Day. Another incident that pissed me off was when we were on a date. He got a call from her regarding the kids. He then WENT outside to answer the phone call, leaving me at the table for a good 10 mins. Me and his ex-wife are cool. We are not best friends but she respects me just as much as I respect her. Am I acting too jealous? or does he have feelings for her?
It sounds like they have a pretty good friendship and that's the best thing for their kiddos. With that being said, you're stuck in a bad spot. It's certainly understandable that you'd feel uncomfortable and like a 3rd wheel when they're in the same room. It was also incredibly insensitive of him to leave you while he took a phone call.
As far as your question goes about of he still has feelings for her, yeah he might even if he's come to terms with the divorce.
You have to decide if you want to continue on a relationship where you're not a priority. You're way at the bottom of that totem pole. Does he have any pets? I would suspect they come before you as well.
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Sounds to me like he does. In no way is it appropriate to tell his ex wife that he loves her or even touch her. Talk to him about this
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