So my ex has a new partner now and he seems very happy. I am happy for him of course but getting over this easily is normal? He didn't love me at all?
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My ex is in a new relationship and seems very happy. Is this normal?
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Yes, it's normal for your ex to move on and find happiness in a new relationship. It can be tough to see, especially if you're still processing the breakup yourself, but people move forward at different paces.
What's important now is you should focus on your own happiness. Take up some new hobbies, spend time with friends and family, or explore your own interests that you might not have had time for previously. It's also okay to feel a mix of emotions about your ex being happy with someone else. Allow yourself to feel whatever you feel but dont bury yourself in there.
Just because your ex has found someone new, it doesn't mean your chance at happiness is gone. It's out there waiting for you too, in its own time and way. Take this pain as an opportunity for yourself.
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This is like the same time I've seen this same shit in short secession.
Why you keeping track of him? Didn't you want to move on? His new girl makes him nutt and makes him happy, what did you do for him?
Now I have to say something nice about you because I'm trying to be a nice guy. The last question I read about this same exact question... that bitch was a dumb gold digger and she was just mad for really dumb selfish reasons. The last bitch was mainly complaining about him being cheap and not spending money on her, and then she was just pissed off because he was happy with a chick that didn't want all that bullshit money stuff. ... So I give you that... at least you're not gold digging here. But still, let the dude go... He probably just nutted in her.
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Your ex being happy now, in his new relationship, has nothing to do with how he felt about you when you two were together. Those were most likely good times, but they are in the past.
You say you're happy for him... now be happy for yourself and find someone in a new relationship for you.
Seeing your ex with someone else could really hurt if you still have feelings for him.
I remember when my ex-husband got remarried to a young woman with a rich dad. He would come over to pick up our little boy for the weekend visit. They drove up in a brand new Porché convertible and drove off with OUR little boy and I just went in the house and cried. It should have been us, not them!
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1. He could be doing it to forget you and pretend that he’s happy.
2. He could be trying to get to you and make you jealous.
3. Maybe he didn’t love you enough to stick to the good memories and takes time to move on.
in the end it all depends on the period of time you’ve been together & how many months past since you guys broke up. You know him better than us.
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If you see him suffer before he moves on, will that make you happy?
If you're really happy for him, it should be from your heart, not just words. Focus on your life - 2.4K opinions shared on Break Up & Divorce topic. u
How long was your relationship with the ex, how involved was it, and how long ago did you break up?
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Well, this is typical. May I suggest you close that door and move on. There is no need to look back and linger in the past. He’s moved on and so should you.
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yes it's normal if he was checked out of the relationship months before the break up. or he just finds no sense in dwelling over something he can't change so he moves on quick.
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Most men are quite pragmatic. "Finished" is like: switched off, closed case, gone to the archives.
Romantic tristesse is reserved for movies and cheesy literature.
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Did he break up with you or you break up with him? If he broke up with you, then yeah that feels bad. If you broke up with him, then that's good he got over you fast.
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Leave him alone. He already moved on. Why don't u date someone else and move on. Don't overthink too much , date someone else.
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Men know they are replaceable and expendable (unless they are one of the top 5% of men, that most women are after), so they tend to move on sooner than later.
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Wtf
Let him lifing his life if he was happy what do you want him to do crying and call you back 🤨🤨🤨 -
Course he loved you. But you toyed with him, broke up with him and so he moved on.
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block him on everything and stop looking him up. it only hurts you everytime you do. out of sight out of mind.
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That's normal. What's not normal is you keeping track of what's going on in his life. Move on.
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Well yeah. What you wanted him to be broken and destroyed and unhappy forever?
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Yes it's normal but the way things look doesn't necessarily reflect the way things are.
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he is an ex so it doesn't matter
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Why wouldn't it be normal?
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Yes it’s normal
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