How do you move forward from depression going through a second divorce?

[Anonymous]

I turned 39 today on 4/20 and it’s been depressing. Everyone around doesn't understand how much I long for just to be enough and loved equally in companionship with the opposite sex to talk to, share my day, or even just the physical things of being held.

[loverguy123123123]

It’s something you just can’t rush let yourself grieve. Divorce is loosing someone you deeply loved and cared about. The only people who can just move on are people who never loved someone to begin with.

Divorce sucks but most the time it’s for the best. Don’t rush into another relationship as a rebound if you get into another one take things slow and don’t get too far ahead. Because not only can you get yourself into a worse situation then the last you can also hurt someone else.

You have a heart that’s why it’s hard. It may take a while get professional help and if you have then focus on them as well as what’s best for them. Then yourself.

[exitseven]

I am sorry you are going through this. I have been married for decades and I think getting a divorce would be devastating. You need to let yourself mourn the loss and try to make sense of it all.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Jay-_-]

Lots of time and during all that time remember you are worth a lot, love yourself, and if you have family or friends to be with during this hard time just speak to them.

[jahaims]

Stay single and mature. You are picking immature partners and you are immature yourself. Stop using relationships as an emotional bandaid

[Ariesman81]

Cry in silence and blame everyone else like an adult.

[Jay-_-]

Blaming everyone else isn't the act of an adult.. But I agree with the beginning of your statement...

Cry in silence.

[Godihateyou]

Plow headfirst into a 3rd divorce

[Gaylordslav]

Booo hooo