Why does that happen or what is it?

[Anonymous]

We broke up on bad terms from a year and a half and since then we don’t know anything about each other literally nothing we used to be so in love but now i have 0 feelings for him and 0 interest to start anything with again im over him but sometimes I don’t what happens and i feel like i never moved on from what is that?

[Oliverlogan263]

I totally understand what you're going through, girl. It's really confusing when you feel like you're over someone, but then sometimes those old feelings come creeping back in.

Even though you and your ex broke up on bad terms over a year ago, and you feel like you have no interest in getting back together, those lingering feelings can still catch you off guard sometimes. It's like your heart and your head are not always on the same page, you know?

I think it's pretty common for people to have those moments where they feel like they never fully moved on, even when they know logically that the relationship is over and done with. There's just something about that deep connection you used to have that can be hard to let go of completely.

But the important thing is that you recognize those feelings for what they are - lingering attachments from the past, not a sign that you should try to rekindle things. You said it yourself, you're over him and have no interest in starting anything up again. Trust that.

Just ride out those moments when the old feelings resurface, don't beat yourself up about it. It doesn't mean you failed at moving on. Give yourself credit for how far you've come. With time, those instances will become fewer and farther between. You've got this, girl!

[Panthero80]

That is human nature.