Anyone else feel like there about to get over a breakup and realize there not?

[dwreborn]

Had couple good days thought maybe I was over the hump and just had a horrible day in my head all day and couldn't stop it

[Finchie40]

Break ups can be hard , especially if you been with that person for a long time and then all of a sudden they are no longer with you , your head fills with thoughts and memories of that person and we sometimes question ourselves as to what happened? Whether you dump them or they dumped you , your head will be flustered with question marks in most cases. Why it’s best to focus on yourself as much as possible and try to exempt them from your life as much as possible and act like they no longer exist to you. In time , your thoughts about them will fade away to the point you won’t even really know them anymore , they were just a chapter in your life and so it’s best to start a new chapter in your life without them. Whether you choose to stay single or choose to meet someone else , that’s up to you. What helps me after a break up is the fact I tell myself , if they truly loved me like they claim they did , they wouldn’t be my ex period , an ex is an ex for a reason , if they truly cared about me , they would still be by my side but they are not , so it’s best to move on and focus on myself and eventually I might meet a girl that is way better than my ex

[dwreborn]

No i agree I've got to move on problem is we have a 14 year old girl so i can't avoid her and a lot of her shit is going to be at my house also there isn't much forgetting about her like i said its a complicated 25 year marriage or its complicated now