I was in an extremely abusive and toxic relationship. My girlfriend was an alcoholic and cheater. She begged me to take her back and I did but never forgave her. She couldn’t give up drinking and kept saying she was raped when she went over a guys house. The thing is she lied about it and it lasted for a month. I didn’t find out until I saw her texts. She said well the first time was rape and she was blackmailed the rest. But her texts were all about meeting up, having sex and drinking/drugs. I should have broke up with her immediately but I couldn’t. I felt destroyed and manipulated. She said she would change. She did a little but she never stopped drinking. I kept waking up sweating every night thinking about her cheating. I couldn’t focus at work. My heart kept breaking. The pain was worse than losing my dad, cousin, pets, etc. Because it was betrayal and lying. I searched online if it was actually possible to be raped by drinking at a persons house and blackmailed. Everyone said it’s not possible. I tried to get the police involved and she refused. She just wanted to stay together and hope doing good things like cleaning the house, cooking food, and lots of sex would help me forget. Instead I was always thinking about her cheating everyday. I finally told her today I can’t do it anymore. She is begging me to keep her but I said she has to leave. She offered threesomes and a bunch of other things. I said no. I can never see her as a potential partner. She will always be a cheater and I would rather be with someone who loves me and not cheat like this. I feel relieved. I’m ready to start working out and eating healthy and learning new things.
Has anyone been so relieved and happy to breakup?
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