Have you ever felt happier/felt relief after a break up?

[Pinay_ako]

[PastelGoth]

Yes!!! And I'm enjoying it. It was rough at first, but now that the pain in my heart mended, I'm VERY happy, and couldn't be better. I take a look back at the relationship and I'm like just like "what was I thinking?" And I wasn't even happy in the relationship, but me, of course, me being desperate for someone to love me thought I was. But now, I'll happy and I'm enjoying and loving MYSELF 💕

[Ornate]

Sounds dramatic but after my divorce, and the initial shock and pain of the loss... I started living, again. I got my life back. So yes, 100% absolutely relieved and happier being single. <3

[loveslongnails]

Only when the relationship was dead and neither one of us knew enough to fall down.

[Liam_Hayden]

I am always relieved when I end it with someone with whom it isn't working out.

[StingRayxoxo]

After an abusive relationship, yes. Although relief didn't happen right away.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Relationship or hoe life? That's pretty cynical. Walked away once from an abusive relationship. She of course tried to get me to come back after her stuff began needing repairs again. But I said no. I wasn't falling for her BS a second time.

I didn't feel overjoyed to leave. I felt worried. That she'd get revenge because she couldn't control me. And that I'd be forever alone once I left.

And then, after months of seeing someone else, she threw me out and claimed a sudden change of heart. That she knew and hated the previous gal so much, that anyone who was with the previous gal was no longer good enough for her. And essentially said that no other woman ever should give me a chance, on account of the fact that I'd survived that first woman. She wanted me condemned to a life of loneliness, because of the first gal and because I'd suddenly outlived my usefulness to her.

So both of those two can go straight to Hell.

[007-Tarzan]

I always have mixed feelings... End of the day you did spend time with them and had good moments... and because I'm quite a nostalgic person it can be hard to just forget about them right from the get go... having said that.. there is definitely a sigh of relief because deep down I know I'll be moving forward and not backwards.. it's all a process of trial and error and you have to say good bye to some so you can meet the perfect one for you.

[Finchie40]

Yes and No considering i dont committ to someone unless i give my heart to them so if the relationship Falls apart and we break up it hurts knowing we couldnt fix it and we allowed selfishness to come in the way. I only feel relief when i am able to move on from that person in my life , i felt happier when i met someone that valued a relationship better then the last

[007-Tarzan]

That's pretty much how I feel... seems balanced to me

[djmzes]

Simple
Happy or not there are two reality
1. You will never be same. It is not a reset counter.
2. Time has been wasted. You have wasted your time. Up to you decide whether you have learnt from it or not.

[BlackRoseFairy]

Oh yes!! It was such a big relief that it made me realise how much I had neglected my own feelings and happiness.
I still remember when we broke up, I left the place we were at and it felt like I was walking in a different world, another dimension... like I had just broken out of slavery.

[beebella]

Yeah. When I was 16 I took a chance on this guy that I wasn't that interested in (I know, I can feel you judging me right now) and after 3 weeks, I realized that I still didn't really like him. So, I broke it off.
And yes, I did go back to hoe life afterwards. 😂

[Cammy137]

Absolutely, but only because it took me so long to get around to breaking up with her. By the time it actually happened, I felt a huge weight lift off my shoulders. I felt bad, don't get me wrong, but there was dedinitely a sense of relief.

[Tram321]

Hell yeah I did! This small ding ding that treated me like shit broke up with me, I was crying over that dumb ding ding. Jezz, a guy with a bigger penis shows up, damn, he’s so good to me. Seriously lucky

[Bellarina6]

Yes. When the relationship is bad and it ends, it feels like a huge weight has been lifted. I feel so free when toxic relationships end

[GraveDoll]

YESSSSSSSS

When I move out I almost believed that there may actually be a god...

[Miss_Savanna_Dry]

Yeah, felt free and like the weight of the world was off my shoulders.

[TacocaT6969]

Yes.

When I broke up with my ex it was like being released from a 6 year prison sentence.

[FranLimonade]

Yes! My high school ex was a douche. I don't know why I fell for him tbh 😂

[Hannah591]

Yeah, it was a relief. I had less stress (for a short time before things went downhill).

[Alyssa_K]

Yes, after I found out he cheated on me and I broke it off with him.

[Piteka5]

Yes, because the relationship was already dead, so I was already prepared for it, and it was being really awful with constant disagreements

[Lance1965]

A few times, yeah but I have had my fair share of bad break-ups too.

[StellarDrift]

Nope. But I have felt relief after being rejected. Like I dodged a nuclear weapon.

[Preston69]

Yes for sure especially when it was all about money

[Secret6620]

Absolutely happier and more relief 🖤💜

[Ankitasingh466]

No. I've never had a breakup.

[ariadneR]

Not immediately but after a week. Yes.

[love2laugh17]

Depends on how the breakup went

[DiegoO]

Relief, free like an eagle.

[No_Archons]

Lol fucking greasy meme

[NovissimumVirorum]

I feel happy when other people breakup

[ForbesMagazine]

I've never been in a relationship.

[sidvt]

Nope was totally broken

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

!00% Yes ~ When I broke up with my ex...

[ToniSky]

Yes..

[Wowgirl30q]

Yes sadly

[Darkangel19]

Nope never

[Billygee6969]

i will just share this. breaking up is so much less drama than getting divorce. im a two time loser , i have to take responsibility for the second one. But being married, when its good there's nothing better. but when its bad its the worse. And i want to do it agsin , yep i said that but you need to find someone that you know won't punk out at the first time it gets tough. its you and him againist the world and no matter how bad it gets and sometimrs it does, dont give up. im native American and my hertiage tell us that you dont look for love, love sneaks up on you when you least expect it. and you will know. along the journey called life , our paths cross so many times and you learn from it. i heard a saying once... You dont marry someone you can live with, you marry someone you can't live wirhout. take care of yourself ; believe and have faith. I've been divorcwd now for over 5 years and haven't dated or been with anyone emotionally or sexually, and yes I've had many chances wirh beautiful sucessful women , but it would have been one cheap sex and sex should never be cheap, nor are you. and if i can do it , you can do it for sure because women are so much stronger than men. what better gift to offer the next love of my life than not being abar slut. i feel bad for young women because you have to deal with young boys, i mean men. i have some other wisdom id share with you but not on here. and im sure guys willread this and go what a wuss , but if we walked down the street ; ya wouldn't. good luck and be strong and believe.

[LuvAsh]

Yesssss!!!

[AwesomeLadaaay]

Yesss

[Busee]

Of course

[pizzalovershouse]

yes half the, time

[Sha84]

sure is a relief if not rich enough

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

Yes l have

[GreenGold1992]

nope

[Mermaid1111]

Yes!

[John1217]

Yes I have

[Slim57]

Nope

[Chloe210]

Yes i have.

[Ordinarygurl_]

I don't know