How is my ex boyfriend able to stay in a committed relationship with his new girlfriend since he’s such a disrespectful person to me?

[Anonymous]

I met my ex boyfriend here on GAG. I remembered how he insisted on cumming on my face although I told him no and when he insisted on it I replied in all caps. ‘I SAID NO IF YOU WANT ME TO BE BLIND THEN BE PREPARED TO PAY FOR MY DOCTORS FEES!’ He’s so dumb and didn’t understand the word ‘no’. I snooped on him using another Instagram account because he blocked me after we broke up. He has a new girlfriend and I wonder if he didn’t respect me when it comes to communication on sex how does he even get to stay with her for a few years. They are still dating now by the way. Has he changed and realise his mistakes or is he the same old selfish jerk years ago?

[Anonymous]

It could be a number of things. For one it could have been you, to which you’re not being honest about how things really went. It’s possible as most people tend to lie about what really happened when it comes to a relationship. It could also be that she was willing to do all the things you enter. Maybe she likes all of that stuff. Regardless he’s your ex, move on, because honestly you haven’t. Sounds like you still have a thing for him. Why don’t even care?

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s me, I did explain to him word for word when it comes to anything. I didn’t lie I want to do A, then days later I want to do B instead of A. I emphasised so much I didn’t want him to do certain acts but he’s so selfish and dumb to which he kept insisting which made me yelled in all caps because he crossed that line.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so you enter his type. Nothing selfish w that. There’s women who like that stuff. He could say the same about you being selfish as far as only satisfying you. But regardless he’s your ex so it’s best you move on. You’re not willing to do what he wants,, now he found someone who is.

[Pterodon]

Why do you care? He’s an ex

[Asker]

For some reason I’m worried he might pressure his new girlfriend into doing things she hates when it comes to discussing sexual stuff.

[Pterodon]

So you want to control their sex life?

[Asker]

No not at all, I just hope he change.

[Getback]

He's a good liar