It took me 4 years to get over my ex. I think it took that long because we're coworkers. I forgave him around 3 years ago, but I haven't gotten over what he did to me. I think about it every time he starts to get too friendly with me. I remember he's just trying to entertain himself, and I'm the safest person to be around. He didn't cheat he didn't do anything illegal, but he told me to stop.
Stop texting him all the time, stop waiting to eat with him , stop hugging him. I can have sex anytime, though. When I'm sick, when I'm frustrated, when I'm tired, when we're early, when I'm cold, before work, when it was breaktime, when he dropped me off from work.
If I'm sad because someone I knew passed away, sex with him is one of his first recommendations for me. Even after the breakup, sex was still his on his mind, but everything else we did together, he forgot.
He erased and threw away. No photos, no memories except sex and the stuff i bought him that catered to his favorite hobbies. He recommended me places we've been together. Some of those places I found. He recommended shows we watched week after week. I never want to date a coworker again, but even in this condition, I really don't want to date guys in general. The 180 switch was crazy and unexpected. It took months before he became comfortable enough to show his true self. And during all that time, I was being strung along, thinking that it was love and taking risks without any parachute. Having him as my first boyfriend and second body definitely scarred the dating scene for me. I went from seeing him 7 days a week to 3 days a week to none ( he doesn't work with me anymore). This is the first year I could finally breathe.
Stop texting him all the time, stop waiting to eat with him , stop hugging him. I can have sex anytime, though. When I'm sick, when I'm frustrated, when I'm tired, when we're early, when I'm cold, before work, when it was breaktime, when he dropped me off from work.
If I'm sad because someone I knew passed away, sex with him is one of his first recommendations for me. Even after the breakup, sex was still his on his mind, but everything else we did together, he forgot.
He erased and threw away. No photos, no memories except sex and the stuff i bought him that catered to his favorite hobbies. He recommended me places we've been together. Some of those places I found. He recommended shows we watched week after week. I never want to date a coworker again, but even in this condition, I really don't want to date guys in general. The 180 switch was crazy and unexpected. It took months before he became comfortable enough to show his true self. And during all that time, I was being strung along, thinking that it was love and taking risks without any parachute. Having him as my first boyfriend and second body definitely scarred the dating scene for me. I went from seeing him 7 days a week to 3 days a week to none ( he doesn't work with me anymore). This is the first year I could finally breathe.
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