What caused your heartbreak?

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If you had more than one then explain the one of choice, I'm being nosey 😬

Noredcarpet · Accepted Answer

To me it was this one moment when I was at a family gathering (my exs family) and everyone in his family treated me as ususl well, but he was not, the moment he did that. I tried to make light of it for everyones sake, and I knew it was him, something wrong with him, just him overreacting. Just how he thought he was all that and I a nobody. He had so very little to give. I saw what a person he really was but he was trying to make me pay for it. There were other times as well when I cried when nobody could see, tell, alone, my heartbreak came step by step, but that was one incident that did it. We think today he must have been bipolar and in a psychosis where he got jealous that could possible explain his behavoir as a total, but I think there are those who suffer by mental illness and are good people and those who are bad and those who are a little of both, but in order to be as cruel as he was for as long as he was he would have to be, to me, medicated or not, still bad and I mean bad like bad. I fell for him because I thought he was kind, he was kind to me back then, but I think he fooled us all. I have been told I have trauma from few incidents with him, the family gathering not being one of them, far from it, but it was the last time I saw his family before our split. They were always good to me. So even that moment, that evening, he had to poison. Nothing stayed good with him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My family. Well, my mum specifically. She and I went through a break-up of sorts, she was so wonderful, caring, and present in my life growing up, and I had a really close connection with her. She, however, has her demons (as we all do) and became quite protective of me. She also suffers from acute anxiety, along with the rest of my family. So, her anxiety paired with her protectiveness lead to her not trusting my friends or my boyfriend. There was one night in particular, where she blew up at my boyfriend for saying something she didn't agree with. And tbh, his comment was coming from a place of sympathy, but she saw it as an attack. She pretty much declared that she never trusted him from the beginning, and that she needs a "break" from him. My dad and I have chatted and he agrees that she would have been this way with any person I dated/spent time with. He loves my boyfriend and thinks he's wonderful (which he is). After the fight I told her that her words matter and that they really hurt my partner, and that she needs to get on board with him if she wants to be in my life. And she hasn't been able to. It broke me, and I've been grieving our relationship. I watched "Wild Robot" (which is about motherhood) the other night with my boyfriend and I just broke down, it made me so sad.

Rei13 · Answer

As far as friendships/relationships go it was when I realized they weren’t going to work and I would lose that person. Otherwise it has been when my grandparents have died. The hardest was when my mom’s mom passed simply because she was the last to go. If my parents/siblings go before me that will be even worse. The lost friends/relationships hit me harder at the time, but my grandparents have never left me and I still think about them and wish they were here

Bitter_Sweet94 · Answer

My heart broke when I realized I was giving more love than I was receiving back.

It wasn’t one moment more like a slow understanding that I deserved someone who chose me with the same clarity I chose them.

Painful, yes. But it taught me a lot about my own worth.

exitseven · Answer

I was dating a girl for a few months. I had really fallen for her almost from the start. It was just crazy. She told me that she was too busy with schoolwork to see me one weekend. So I went to a bar with some of her friends and she was there with her old boyfriend from high school. They were not just talking about the good old days.

I was blindsided by this and didn't know what to do. I figured I should just leave. She saw me get up and leave and she did not do anything. As I was driving home I had to pull over to the side of the road and puke.

In the days that followed she never called me to explain or apologize or anything. That made it even worse.

MemeSupreme · Answer

one of them in high school was caused by moving in with my grandma. there was multiple reasons ofc but that was the biggest

being an hour away seemed like big deal as a teenager lol even tho we had our license

Anonymous · Answer

I was engaged and living with a guy. The month before our wedding, I found out that he’d been cheating the whole time we’d been together. I broke up with him and had to get rid of my wedding dress that I’d already bought.

CherryLove007 · Answer

He was doing better and getting healthy with me but he went back on drugs because his visited his old friend who used to sell him it.

sage2021 · Answer

When my boyfriend died suddenly two years ago. RIP Patrick John 🧸🍪 🍪🍪🥛🥛❤️

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Haven’t had my heart broken in years lol but the last time I mourned the idea of a family

WonderingManII · Answer

Women that turn against me for reasons I don't know about.

Anonymous · Answer

Unrequited love :(

Eve996 · Answer

My crush kissed someone else.. DEEPLY

Vevv123 · Answer

A man 🙄

Anonymous · Answer

She did

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