My first love was pretty traumatic and first serious relationship. By far the worst one was a situationship I had for 3 years. I was emotionally cheating on my ex and he was emotionally cheating on his ex at the time. We both treated the other like boyfriend/girlfriend but we never got physical. He and his ex broke up and I was in the process of trying to leave an abusive relationship. We finally started hanging out more and he gave me hugs (I was starved for physical affection, those hugs meant everything to me. I know now they don't mean as much). I got a full time job after college and was about to get the ball moving so we could finally be together. After I got the new job he told me we would never be together he said our personalities would clash and the world would burn. But we could still be friends. I tried desperately to change his mind and maintain what little friendship we had. I told him I loved him and he ghosted me. I went off on him and still no reply. After a few months a mutual friend told me he had a new girlfriend he had been seeing since he first told me we couldn't be together. I was crushed. I tried to move on, but wanted closure. It all came to a head and he ended up blocking me without giving me any sort of answers as why I wasn't good enough. I had put myself through so much hell, I had given everything I had. It wasn't enough. I fell into a deep depression after that. I've healed since then with lots of therapy.
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My second ex. I was 19 at that time. I couldn't believe my eyes when I caught him cheating on me. I couldn't ever imagine him cheating on me.
Breaking up with a good woman many years ago. Doubt I will ever meet anyone as special as her again.
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Unrequited love with a neighbor I slept with for my first time. We had sex many more times and I thought there was going to be something between us but he rejected me. That hurt like a bitch.
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