How to throw down the gauntlet to my cheating, gamble addict husband?

[Anonymous]

My ostensible other half and I have been running through a sticky patch recently. I've been disillusioned by his despicable habits, and to cap it all, our nanny has claimed to have seen him and another girl kissing in our larder. How to make him own up to this heinous debacle. Shall I divorce the pest, you think?

[Spencer10]

Well you need to ask yourself is this behavior past the point of return? It sure sounds over the top. You seem to have hit a wall as well. But this is a huge choice and its for you to make I am reluctant to tell you what I think.

[Pterodon]

His addictions are more powerful than your ultimatums. Just leave. There’s nothing you can do

[Anonymous]

kissing the larder?

What century is this?

[slatyb]

That's easy -- file for divorce.