Why is my ex trying to sabotage my life after ending our marriage?

[Finchie40]

[Agape93]

Sometimes bitches just be bitches. They wanna hurt you so you can't be happy. Just save all evidence you can and get a restraining order.

[HawkPerception]

Women tend to be more vengeful than men. And they can get away with it much easier than men too, because they're women.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy relationship behavior and save your sanity, one red flag at a time 😉

An ex who ended the marriage but still tries to sabotage you is driven by control, ego, and insecurity. They hate losing emotional power over you, so they attack your reputation, peace, or progress. That’s emotional abuse, not love. Protect yourself legally, document everything, go no contact where possible, and keep leveling up just to annoy them with your success 😏

[MrChinaski]

Look. I'm just going to call it how I see it. You post regularly on here about how much you despise your ex. And how she despises you. You are both sustaining this. Break the cycle.

[loveslongnails]

She's miserable and she wants you to be too!

[Sal_Monella]

She wants revenge for her own bad decision. It's all your fault.

[Finchie40]

Yea everything was always my fault , never her fault

[Sal_Monella]

See? It was your fault for marrying her. You should have known better. :-D Boy have I ever been there. I call my ex wife Beelzebub.

[Anonymous]

We'd have to know her to answer this. But just a guess, because it's not on her terms? She's not getting the last word?

[robocop666]

you need a legal team for this woman or something.

[AgentG111]

She's a female that's the best answer.

[LiamJHayden]

Some people are petty.

[sage2021]

Did you tell her that you moving?

[Finchie40]

Yes she knows because she is waiting for her share of the house when it sells , we are splitting it. We are trying to be mature about it but she isn’t being very mature and still trying to make my life a living hell when she is the one that initiated this whole thing between us and ruined our marriage, I been very respectful to her the whole time and accepted the fact that our marriage is over , she wants to be selfish and free and I just accepted it because I can’t force her to stay with me and work things out , which I clearly don’t want to do with her mental ass anymore, I tried saving our marriage numerous times and all it did was kick me in the ass , so I finally threw in the towel as well and agreed with her that it’s over. All she does is argue with me and yell at me for things that I have no control over and I give it right back to her that she is out of line. I told her to please stop fighting with me and let’s get the house ready to sell , which I been doing for quite sometime now ,

[sage2021]

I'm sure you will be very relieved once you two split the sheets and go your own ways.
I think that you have a lot to look forward to now. A new place to live, meeting your new neighbors, getting a new job, making friends at work and having your son with you to do stuff with. Plus decorating it with some plants and new colors in each room, etc., it'll be lots of fun!

[Anonymous]

What is she doing?

Is she jealous that you have moved on?

[NathanDavis]

because you let her

[strateguy632]

For revenge!