After a breakup, who actually hurts more and why?

[Anonymous]

People say the one who didn't love hurts less.
But I think both feel hurt equally.
And the one who has more support, options or in the relationship just for fun hurts less.
But again I won't never know. Just a naive assumption

[bobalife]

Depends… did one or both are already checked out? Or does both really care about each other and it simply did not work out?
It’s easy to say, in social norms, the person who dropped the person feels less hurt. However, it’s not always black & white because every situation and relationship is different.

[Simslover92]

The one who didn't end it like someone else said. The dumpee basically.

[NathanDavis]

I'm sure every case will have different circumstances... because I know people who were content on both sides... and even got along way better after they were on their own

[Anonymous]

The man ❤️

It's always the man 🙃🫣 his poor damn wallet

[Opinion Owner]

"all she ever did was use me as a personal cash machine cow 🐄🐮"
Moooooooo

[tiredandgrumpy]

never been in a real relationship so i dont know.

[FunkyMonkee]

The person who's the victim of the break up.

[Anonymous]

Of course the one who loves/loves more hurts the most. It’s illogical that the one who loved less would feel equally hurt.

[Anonymous]

The one who didn't end it

[Asker]

True I agree with you

[Tonita026]

It depends on the situation.

[Sweetdreams1950]

Whoever has the more sensitive heart.

[In_Trance]

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