Finding a new partner
Seeing them talking and dating a lot of people
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I voted B.
When I caught my Long distance boyfriend chatting with lots of girls, I confronted him and the women. What really hurt me is my boyfriend pretended like he didn’t know who I was. While the girls laughed and mocked me and he defended them.
The first one happened to me. It was a 3 years LDR (2014-2017). A few months later after the breakup (or who knows, maybe even before) she started having another online relation and she met the guy in person. All of that I knew one year later. 🤷
Did it hurt? Yes it hurted. What hurted more is that she thought I was with someone else, when the reasons were: college and my mom, who was sickly at the time. I remember feeling extremely sad and angry with her decision, then I let it go. It's her life, not mine. I felt like the relation didn't meant a shit for her (but I could be wrong). Everyone cope with breakups, on different ways. It just happens that she chose the worst way possible.
From what I've known from her, she breakup with him. It seems that they lasted 3 years. If you ask me, I think she has issues to solve. As for me, I decided to remaine single.
Latter option because it really hurts for me to see her get piped by other guys especially gangbangers and troublemakers.
Finding a steady partner right away would be harder for me to see. That would make it seem like they’d already had formed an emotional bond with someone else…like what we’d had wasn’t special.
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