He's willing to cut them off for me. Is that bad?

[Twistabot]

My ex boyfriend wants me back so he says he's willing to block the mother of his kid and their child just to make me happy. Is that bad?

I originally didn't want him around them because he had the baby on me while we were in a relationship. He finally told her to stop calling and texting while he's with me. She got so mad and told him she's putting him on child support for hurting their child.

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And as I stated before, yes I was pregnant by him twice but he said he didn't want any kids by me... smh. Yet, he kept picking up the side chick and their baby to spend nights at his house. Now all of a sudden, he's telling me he's not talking to her anymore because he doesn't want to lose me. 🫤

[Anonymous]

Dude sounds like a POS. Imagine if he changes again for another girl then does the same to you about cutting you as well as your kids off. He’s a POS for abandoning his kid. I get it. He got another chick pregnant while he was w you. But still, deep down this is wrong. You should joke hi accountable for his actions. You can hate the mom sure, but the kid, no. Kid didn’t ask for this.

[OneViewpoint]

You have a less than 1% chance your entire life isn't a raging dumpster fire. Good luck in that social circle.

[FreyaRed]

Q1. Do you want to be the reason a child doesn't have contact with its father?
Q2. Don't you think it's just a show to get you back?
Q3. Are you desperate enough to accept a guy with a child?

[choco-latte]

You shouldn’t trust him. He already lied to you before and he doesn’t have much loyalty for anyone, not for you nor his kid. He only does what feels best for himself.

[choco-latte]

You don’t seem like a bad person and that you’re thinking about his kid says that you’re not selfish just manipulated by this man, you’re a victim of his narcissism. It would be best for you to end that relationship before he hurts you more in my opinion.

[slatyb]

It´s horrible. He has duties to his child. You may the right decision when you ended it.

[kinks1951]

That is his child, if you make him do that he will resent you

[Anonymous]

Just leave him