Why is my ex situationship copying our plans with someone new?

[Anonymous]

I had a recent situationship we were planning on going on holidays and doing other stuff it ended and we don’t talk anymore , he always tries to interact with my friends and stares at me. I miss him but he has a new situationship and I heard they are going to the location we planned on going to and doing the plans we thought of I find that weird. Maybe they are going maybe not it’s the fact he is telling everyone is weird and hurtful too

[HollyK21]

“ I miss him but he has a new situationship and I heard they are going to the location we planned on going to and doing the plans we thought of I find that weird.”


I find it weird that there’s a third party keeping you up to date on this man’s life. Unless you’re just being dishonest about that and it’s actually you who’s keeping tabs on what’s going on with him. In either case, I don’t see how any of this information is productive to you moving on. So he’s got another woman to use up until she gets sick of that shit, just as you did, and leaves him alone, then he will move on to the next, if not circle back to you because he’d have no other options at that point. It’s a vicious, toxic cycle and if I were you I’d want nothing more than to get far away from that. Not keep track of it.

[Anonymous]

It’s amazing how a lot of women will say things like this. He met a new girl. She looks just like me, she dressed like me, eats the same food as me, shits the same way as me. In reality that’s almost always not true. As far as why he’s going to the same place you two were going to go. Like someone else said maybe it was easier to just go w those plans as they were already planned out. Not to mention when people go on vacations, as crazy as it sounds they almost, always go to places they really want to go. So maybe a lot of the places you two had planned to go on vacation were places he really wanted to go. It also makes me think of when women say my ex took his new girl to the same restaurant we always went to eat, is he missing me, reminiscing. No, maybe they just have good ass food, ever think of that. Because they probably do.

[Anonymous]

Don't read anything into it. My ex and I were planning to majorca. I honeymoon with my wife there.

[Abbycado]

Probably easy to just go somewhere that has already been planned. All the groundwork has already been laid.

[MasterKS]

he know how to deal with chicks and play with them well.

[Asker]

It’s not playing with them well it makes him look bad

[MasterKS]

@asker for you not for the new girl.