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Most first relationship are weird experience because you’re basically learning everything as you go. You don’t always know how to communicate, when to speak up, when to give someone space, or even what a healthy relationship is supposed to feel like. ❤️
Sometimes I wonder what would happen if we could go back with the understanding we have now. Would we notice the little things we completely missed? Would we handle certain arguments differently? Would we appreciate the person more instead of taking certain moments for granted? 🥺
Maybe some of us were too young. Maybe we were scared to say what we really felt. Maybe pride got in the way. Maybe we expected the other person to just know what we needed.
And then there are probably people who would go back and realize, “Nope… I still would’ve left.” 😂💔 Some relationships simply weren't meant to survive, even if there was love.
Personally, I think the hardest part is knowing that you can become a much better partner because of lessons you learned from someone you couldn't keep. That's a strange kind of sadness. 😔❤️
So I'm curious...
If you could relive your first relationship knowing everything you know today, would you try to make it work differently, or would you still let it end the way it did? And is there something you wish you had understood back then? 💭💕
Sometimes I wonder what would happen if we could go back with the understanding we have now. Would we notice the little things we completely missed? Would we handle certain arguments differently? Would we appreciate the person more instead of taking certain moments for granted? 🥺
Maybe some of us were too young. Maybe we were scared to say what we really felt. Maybe pride got in the way. Maybe we expected the other person to just know what we needed.
And then there are probably people who would go back and realize, “Nope… I still would’ve left.” 😂💔 Some relationships simply weren't meant to survive, even if there was love.
Personally, I think the hardest part is knowing that you can become a much better partner because of lessons you learned from someone you couldn't keep. That's a strange kind of sadness. 😔❤️
So I'm curious...
If you could relive your first relationship knowing everything you know today, would you try to make it work differently, or would you still let it end the way it did? And is there something you wish you had understood back then? 💭💕
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I don't know. I surely try to keep in mind how not to copy my parents. But philosophically: what the hell even is "communicate", just don't be a childish walking toxin and live together. Even without toxicity there will be incompatibility detected after a few dates and that's not something to "walk away" from as if there is a villain.ㅤ
I honestly wouldn’t go back and try to make it work. I think I’d still let it end… I just would’ve understood myself a lot better along the way. I would’ve spoken up sooner, set stronger boundaries, and stopped thinking that loving someone meant I had to keep accepting things that were hurting me.
I was a lot younger and didn’t always know what a healthy relationship was supposed to look or feel like. Looking back, I think the biggest thing I’d change is how long I ignored my own feelings trying to keep everything together.
So yeah… I’d still let it end. I’d just choose myself a little sooner. A lot sooner actually lol
I was 16 in high school and he was 19 in college getting his degree in psychology.
He smoked marijuana constantly during our entire 3 years together.
He was constantly argumentative.
But when he started getting physically abusive that's when I finally broke up with him in 1974.
I spoke to him on the phone in 1992 and he had become a millionaire because the price of his house increased so much.
He was an executive for a computer company.
He was married for 14 years and no kids.
Maybe if I had met him later on in my life instead of when I was 16 things might have worked out.🤷🏼♀️
Bo I won’t change because then she’ll dominate me and I’ll be known as an ass kisser. Women know your weakness and they come back and they use it against you every single time and they can wrap you around their finger. If you’re not careful this has happened to me before twice. And you have to take a stand. You can’t put up with it any longer
My first relationship was with somebody who was a rather extraordinary individual and I should have made more of an effort to preserve it, but I was young and very impetuous and frankly very promiscuous and there was no saving this at that time given who and what I was.
I don't know..
I have never been in a Romantic committed Relationship
Wow..
What is With Wow..
I have never been in relationship or been intimate... It's just me Stating a Fact.. not something that is WOW
My 1st relationship was with a girl i adored. The way she dressed and wore heavy makeup etc. I would have changed my attitude towards her as I was more interested on what she was wearing
Just skip it. Nothing that can be saved from that one.
I wouldn't have dated him at all. I trusted him; that was my first mistake.
NO THING
the best of it was its genuineness... for good, and bad
I married my first relationship. Then quickly found out she is a huge Cuckquean and loves to watch. I don't know if that would've worked before we got married.
It was an LDR, i'd make it work...
Would not have dated her
Dump her earlier than i did.