Should I stay away from a relationship that constantly discourages me?

[Velora_03]

I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years, but I’ve always felt like he was competing with me and trying to outdo me. He would constantly belittle my goals by saying things like, “You can’t do it on your own,” or “What if you can’t do it?” He often discouraged me and only supported me when I was doing things he wanted me to do. We’re currently broken up, but I’m afraid that if we get back together, he’ll drain me emotionally again. Do you think I’m doing the right thing by staying apart from him?

[tiredpanda]

Yes. Your partner should support and encourage you. He sounds insecure and jealous so I wouldn’t get back together with him.

[bowenw]

You should feel supported in a relationship, not discouraged and emotionally drained. Find someone that supports you and makes you feel like a princess.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds like a negative person. In a relationship one should support the other. Did he also do this with regard to your sex life with him?

[EmmaMary]

I think you've already answered your own question.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Kvass]

Leave him baby leave him.

[exitseven]

yes, find somebody who will support your goals.