Is she trying to get a reaction out of me?

[Anonymous]

I've been dealing with this girl who I really like. now at first I was not playing my role the way I should have. I coulght feelings and let it be know , I think that's part of what made her cut back we don't have sex anymore but we do still see each other and may even wind up spending thie night hear and there.i I know she has a new sex partner so do I , but I've been noticing that she getts a little fustrated with me when I don't answer my cell I do more textin her these days it seemed she got a little jelouse when she found out about my friend now she wants to tell me about her friend and how she likes him and all, I really don't mind listening sometimes but why is she telling me this? at the end off the day I could care less. She tells me this guy wated her to cut me back wich has not happened( why I ask myself if you like this guy and are not phyically attracted to me?) the other day we were in the car and she kept looking at the people walking up and down the streethopeing not to see this guy. why would she keep mee around if she were that conserend? I almost told her how that makes me feel but I bit my toung! then she turns around and tells me that he called her earlir that day and wanted to go out, and that she must not be that into him couse she ain't call him back is she trying to get a reaction out of me ? is she hideing her true feelings

[Anonymous]

It's kind of a possessive thing. She wants you all to herself, she probably feels that if you're with someone else then she might lose you. By your story I can't tell her feelings towards you but she obviously does have feelings or she wouldn't bother with you.

[Anonymous]

yes she is jealous she wants you to know how happy she is and how great her life is but she wants you to be miserable and miss her and want her back... she is jealous that you don't care and you are not playing her game and reacting how she thinks you should...

[Asker]

Do you think she likes this other guy( I know he exist) based on what she telling me about him or she just wants a reaction

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly I doubt she likes him... I think she just might want you to fight for her..... its a ridiculous game she is playing she just wants a reaction.

[Asker]

I fugured that, At the end of the day time will tell I guesse. everything she dose is in moderation even down to the time of day she calls (sometimes early in am). I think she wants to reel me in without letting it be known either

[Annusance]

She just wants a reaction out of you to feed her ego if she really liked you she would not play with your feelings like that especially knowing you don’t want to hear about. My ex tried that with me and I immediately told her “I don’t wanna hear about it” she got mad and called me lame but so what she still decided to talk to me and have sex with me. If she is doing something you don’t like ignore her if it’s clear she is trying to move you off center and get a reaction DONT REACT if you feel like you are being disrespected in anyway… leave her alone