Is she hiding her feelings from me or is she deliberately taking advantage of me?

[Beanie4444]

After 2 years passed, we accidentally met again in a class. Then we talked again with great interest like friends, but it accidentally rekindled that love in me again. After class ended, I saw her standing down in the lobby wating to talk to me a bit more, but at that time I didn't really open my heart, but just said a few words and left. Because I haven't really felt that she's single yet, plus texting and laughing with someone while I'm standing there. After 4 days, she actively called me early in the morning to ask me to do her biology homework for her. At first I declined jokingly but then she promised to invite me to a meal and even said in her heart there was only me and my sleepiness disappeared since then. She kept saying that she was going to invite me to dinner but there was no specific schedule, she still hasn't called me back. Feeling something is wrong with her so was called her back in the middle of the night to say goodnight sweetly. After that we interacted more on social media. She has changed her appearance and dress since then, she is very gorgeous, she copied my hobby and it accidentally stole my heart. Everything seemed to be working fine for me until she uploaded a story with someone else with a love song. At this point I was starting to get a bit shocked, I sat back and thought in the most logical way possible about her having feelings for me. But after all, the fact that I was taken advantage and her intentions just wanted to attract men's attention made more sense to me. That was the first time I knew what pain felt like. We have misunderstood each other in the past and I don't want to lose it again. I'm still awake enough to rethink the problem. If the answer is clear to me then I'm willing to stick with it or walk out of her life and never see her again definitively.

What should i do in this situation? I'm considering asking her but only if I read all of your comments first. Thanks for your advice!

[Bethany22]

Yes it sounds like she just wants mens's attention. It's annoying when someone wants you to do their homework for them and they're promising that the two of you will spend more time together afterwards. She really seems to think she's better than you.

[Beanie4444]

You seem to know about this mentality. But why does she have to do that to be better than me?

[boobliker]

only you can know that, as you have only put one side.
so make up your mind and/or ask her outright what she would do?

[boggboss]

How much have u guys actually spoken

[Beanie4444]

We don't talk much, but every time we talk, she's sweet to me. Much of it is through social media. I could have talked more or officially entered the relationship if she was going to ask me out

[boggboss]

So wait u bearly talk and only in social media but she stole your heart and u thought things where gonna happen plus u was waiting for her to ask u out

[Beanie4444]

what shoul i do?

[boggboss]

Actually talk to her maybe ask her out so u can work out how she Actually sees u

[In_Trance]

Taking advantage of you

[Beanie4444]

thank u

[Anonymous]

Neither

[Beanie4444]

If neither, what is she up to? what should i do