My ex girlfriend is indecisive on whether she wants me or not?

[isenhart88]

she wants to be free, she claims to love me . she told me she wanted space . and we are still talking. but every time I try to work things out , I get shunned .

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we are in a LDR for almost 2 years , and we have always love one another . recently I don't know of what reasons , she decides that she wanted to be free . and now I'm here alone . I miss her so much

[BuriedHorizons]

I understand this situation perfectly. My recent ex and I were together for FOUR years on and off. I was totally miserable when he was gone, and felt like I was in a state of euphoria when he managed to come back. But the more he dragged me in circles, and the more I allowed myself to be someone that he could manipulate - the more heartbroken I was. It got to the point that we have broken up five times. This always started when he had the nerve to ask me for a "break."

It took me this long to think with my head, and ignore my heart. I dumped him one final time and haven't heard from him since. My advice to you: stop contacting her. If she says she wants space. Give her space - enough space to where she can never get a hold of you again. If you guys are already in a LDR. Just how much more space does she NEED? If you live miles apart, and she needs even more space, you should truly consider what she is asking.

She might want to play around. Meaning: she might want the benefits of having a boyfriend, without an actual commitment. Do not waste your life waiting for someone - ever. Find someone that doesn't need to be "free" from you. As if you're someone that has kept her there against her will. Move on please.

[Misty_04]

She's seventeen, she doesn't know what she wants. An obvious dilema because she wants to experience other things and sometimes a boyfriend gets in the way of that. Plus when she turns eighteen she will be legal and want to go out and drink and you might even be spending more time on your own. If she's messing you around tell her to make a decision or you're off.

[isenhart88]

i guess I am the fool to have believed everything :)

[DS4L_]

Get over her. It looks like she's only going to be hurting to for a long time. Any one that says "I love you, but I want to be free" clearly has a mix up in priorities, and isn't ready for a real relationship.

[isenhart88]

she wants me to wait for a year , before she want a relation again .

[DS4L_]

That's just mean.

[anon99]

Sound like your on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster mate,

if you still like/love her and she's telling you she want's space give her space,

if you've tried talking about your relationship and this is what your getting in response,

go with the flow, sometimes a breakup in unavoidable, be ready for this.

All you can do is your best, that's all.

[isenhart88]

thank you bro for your encouragement , I can only hope she will return to me . what sucks is we are in a LDR and it has been going on for almost 2 years . she is only turning 17 and I believe the reason why she wants a breakup is because of her not being able to commit .

[themastaplan]

just live your life and don't put it on hold

no one wants to be a second option or a "choice"

do you, if its meant to be it will be

[ArrograntWarrior]

sounds like she got you by balls..if I were you I would date another girl and show her that it's her loss of not having you

[isenhart88]

might take some time to get over her . currently still being string along like a fool . I don't know when ill wake up from that

[ArrograntWarrior]

girls enjoy fooling guys ,its their fav pass time since 80s

[MyNameIsJonas]

Distance yourself and forget about her. If she is indecisive she will want what she can't have.