Should I text her on Easter?

[brettb]

We up close to a month ago. She broke it off. We fought too much but I was willing to work it out, she wasn't. We loved each other. 3 weeks ago I told her that I want to fight for her and show her I care about her and possibly us. 2 weeks ago I tried telling her that I want to take her out so I could show her that all I need was a kick in the ass. she said it will be too awkward. A week and half ago I asked her if I was wasting my time fighting for her to get her back and she relied that she doesn't want me wasting my time forever while the right women could potentially come into my life and be better than her. Should I text her on Easter saying happy Easter and see if a conversation emerges or should I wait for a more random time to text her? Or any other advice will suffice in my situation.

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+1 y

Well on the contrary, I texted her on Easter and she informed me that she was seeing somebody else alreaady.

[Anonymous]

You can if you want, but I wouldn't expect the "let's try again" response.

I was married; and due to some unfortunate events, it seemed like all our dreams were crashing down one after another. After six months of unemployment I finally found another job. I started to wipe out the debt that was acquired in hopes that we can continue chasing those dreams. But sadly, she already opened up her options and divorce was eminent.

Long story short; I wouldn’t. She broke it off and she doesn’t want to try again. If she texts you “Happy Easter”, go ahead and wish back. But it seems like it is turning one-sided in a relation that takes two.

I also want to add that constantly bugging her is not helping. Remain quiet and out so she can feel what it’s like without your presence and the stuff you do for her. I can’t guarantee she’ll come running back; so in the mean time keep your options open too. You might find someone that has the perks of your ex but shares similar views.

[winherback]

Text her after Easter and asked how her Easter was. Never hurts to keep in touch with a person if you're willing to do it.

[TheoryOfAvarice]

It sounds like it's time for you to move on... you've been fighting this whole time and from what you've told us, it seems as though she's been making no effort at all. She's moving on, and you should do the same... texting her on Easter isn't going to change anything.

[brettb]

In reality, I know it won't change anything and all of a sudden make things work. I wouldn't expect her to fight for me since she's the one that broke it off. But I want to make the right move in possibly becoming friends again and trying to work things down the road again.

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Oh, I gotcha. Well there's no harm in trying to remain friends. And like the other user suggested, it might be good to give her a bit of space for a little bit.

Honestly though, it does sound like the ball is in her court. Try not to waste too much time trying to stay on her good side though. If she's not willing to make any efforts with you, I don't want to say that she's not worth your time, but I think you could do better than that.