Why do guys break up out of the blue?

[Anonymous]

Were you pretending to be happy in the relationship? Because girls would get caught off guard if you had approached them to end it.

[danielm2009uk]

It's not always guys who do this, girls do to.

All people have their reasons, it's not because of their gender. It's down to the person. They should have the decency to explain to a partner why they have chosen to end the relationship, but most do take the cowards way out.

[Asker]

Yeah true I agree with that.

[CasaNorba]

they probably get bored. or they where lying from the beginning... you know, telling you they wanted a serious relationship with you when he really was just trying to get in your pants

[Asker]

Yes that could be one scenario. OR they just aren't ready to commit? I mean they may like the relationship but once their partner gets into it more seriously than they are, then I guess that's where they have to come a stop and be like 'oh OK hold on...Im not sure about this.'

[KERMlT]

People sometimes get to a breaking point. It is like this drunk haze and one moment brings it all back to clarity. You think, why the f**k am I in this relationship? Women are more notorious for breaking up out of the blue. They even made t-shirts about it.

Something like

We are breaking up but he doesn't know it yet.

[Asker]

Yes you're right. And I think my question sounded a little biased. Well it wasn't meant to sound that way. I know there are girls out there who do worse things. Neither gender is perfect.

I just hate how people can end a relationship without a reason or without giving any signals/warnings DURING the relationship that it was going to end.

[DJLeftFoot]

Sometimes it could be because the guy asked you to work on charging something that he didn't like about you and you didn't work on it; as a result he cuts you loose.

[Asker]

Yes I agree, thanks :)

[slayerhollow999]

It happens because I'm a idiot and a douche.

Easy, I like seeing a person happy if I'm not, and sometimes when she leaves I realize that this is not my thing and I don't want this.

And I don't like seeing women sad so I push it aside thinking it might get better, but heck it dosen't. And yeah, I do feel like a monster and jerk, being honest is painful after lying

[Asker]

No don't call yourself that, it;s understandable.

[Anonymous]

I've done this many times. Its just because girls are so bad, they always try to take advantage of me and try to get into my pants... Its like they just think about sex and nothing else. That's why. I don't like feeling used and that they are with me just for sex, so I dump the users and try to find only meaningful relationships.

[Asker]

Really? ALL your ex girlfriends are only in it for the sex? Not ONE of them intended the relationship to be more meaningful?

[Opinion Owner]

Unfortunately yes, they all wanted just one thing sex. It seems that's all girls care about.

[Asker]

Ummm except THIS girl? LOL not all girls are that horny

[sourabhrockz]

they get bored. want something new and exciting.

[Asker]

I agree :)