So about 3 months ago I began hanging out with this guy that I went to high school with, it was one of those things where I didn't know what I was getting myself into at first but now I'm so confused with the situation that I don't know if I should stay or go?
At first our friendship began as going out to eat or smoking together and now it's at the point where we hang out almost every single day, do everything together but we aren't. But here's the thing, about a month & a half into hanging out we had sex one night, it was good and I initiated it but after that night he never tried to kiss me or be affectionate, yet we hang out 24/7. A week after the deed we were drinking with friends and I tried to make a move on him by kissing him in hopes that I could get some that night (I know I sound like a dude but I'm around him a lot and I find him so attractive so you do the math) but he pushed away saying he did want a relationship or a distraction, I told him I wasn't trying to have a relationship and how was I distracting him when he's the one who calls me ? I left mad and that was our first fight, we didn't talk for a day ten the next day I decided to say sorry for not respecting him, he apologized as well and we went back to normal, and began spending more time together, but here's the catch. We're working on a project together so I wanna avoid drama but I just want more of him, he doesn't try to kiss me or initiate anything and it sucks because I'm not with him yet I feel like I am & our friends say we're basically a couple. Now I'm not into rushing or labels but I'm confused now I don't know if he finds me attractive, I wonder why he doesn't kiss me or anything and part of me wants to stop spending so much time with him but then the other part wants to initiate something one more time to see if it works, he's quickly become my best friend but I'm sexual and I only want him so I don't know what to do. I don't wanna sit here and say I could've don't this or that but I also don't wanna get rejected. HELP?
At first our friendship began as going out to eat or smoking together and now it's at the point where we hang out almost every single day, do everything together but we aren't. But here's the thing, about a month & a half into hanging out we had sex one night, it was good and I initiated it but after that night he never tried to kiss me or be affectionate, yet we hang out 24/7. A week after the deed we were drinking with friends and I tried to make a move on him by kissing him in hopes that I could get some that night (I know I sound like a dude but I'm around him a lot and I find him so attractive so you do the math) but he pushed away saying he did want a relationship or a distraction, I told him I wasn't trying to have a relationship and how was I distracting him when he's the one who calls me ? I left mad and that was our first fight, we didn't talk for a day ten the next day I decided to say sorry for not respecting him, he apologized as well and we went back to normal, and began spending more time together, but here's the catch. We're working on a project together so I wanna avoid drama but I just want more of him, he doesn't try to kiss me or initiate anything and it sucks because I'm not with him yet I feel like I am & our friends say we're basically a couple. Now I'm not into rushing or labels but I'm confused now I don't know if he finds me attractive, I wonder why he doesn't kiss me or anything and part of me wants to stop spending so much time with him but then the other part wants to initiate something one more time to see if it works, he's quickly become my best friend but I'm sexual and I only want him so I don't know what to do. I don't wanna sit here and say I could've don't this or that but I also don't wanna get rejected. HELP?
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