Is she using her Period as an excuse to flake on me??

[apen87]

Dating a girl that doesn't know what she wants and simply wants to play around... she's told me herself she doesn't want a relationship and is constantly sending mixed signals / giving me the HOT and COLD treatment

- Met a girl date 3 months no kiss/hold hands/get intimate

- she breaks it off goes back to the ex

- drops the ex comes back to me 3 months later

- Shows lots of interest first 3 days (thru text) we meet up and have sex

- AFTER sex she gives me the HOT and COLD treatment ignores me for a day or two at times

- We agree to sleep together again the following weekend on my birthday, 2 days before the weekend she tells me she's on her period and to reschedule the hotel reservation for 3-4 ahead of that day, but goes on to tell me she still wants to go out drinking with me and take me out to dinner as a date and pick me up and take care of the check... (she came through in that part)

- get a text from her today that she is still on her period and that it's best to cancel but that as soon as her period is gone we will go out and sleep together because (It was sort of a Birthday present she had offered me)

She likes the new me less shy and more freaky but yet she told me if I get too freaky and only talk about sex she will pull away... last night we went out with some friends I asked her for a kiss and she said no and refused... 20 minutes later she's all over me grinding on me and moaning and shoving her tongue down my throat on her own terms...

wtf does she wants and what should I do?

[Getwhatyougive]

She definitely likes to play. Every girl likes to play, and if she keeps coming back it's because she likes you in some way. You guys had sex, you're asking to have sex with her again, but it seems like she keeps coming up with some stupid excuse. Maybe she wants to play, but without feeling too used, that might be why she comes up with these excuses to avoid sex. Talk to her about it, tell her what's on your mind, ask her what she wants and why she acts the way she does. You can't keep doing this, and she can't keep playing without telling you where this is going. So try to talk ! :-)

[apen87]

Thanks it makes a lot of sense... the problem with her is that the first time I came on too strong and told her how I felt she completely backed away... She's going away for 4 months on vacation and she told me before that she doesn't want to commit now because she doesn't want to feel guilty but that as soon as she returns she hopes I'm single so she can be my girlfriend... that's the only reason I don't really want to corner her right now...

Even her friends tell me they can't read her at all

[Getwhatyougive]

Be careful.. You're really attached to her aren't you? So like I said, she definitely likes you in some way but when she says she hopes you'll be single when she comes back, it might be because she likes the idea of having you to hang out with and make out with when she wants. If she doesn't have that, it's "no fun" for her anymore. I understand you don't want to corner her right now but you can't wait for her for 4 months if it's just so she can use you when she comes back.. I still think it'd

[EmpressMe]

So basically, she's using you sexually?

Sounds like she's not very interested in you emotionally or mentally, but she just watns to use you for what you can do for her p*ssy. She's full of sh*t, acting like her period is a handicap lol! I hope you're okay with a tease who likes to play games because that appears to be all she's interested in doing with you

[apen87]

I'm not OK with it and to be honest as a guy I was looking forward to sleeping with her at least one more time to get it out of my system and moving on because I can tell she isn't Girlfriend material no matter how nice and sweet I treat her. But even that is hard now because after she got sex once she is playing hard to get

[EmpressMe]

She's playing games. Seriously, it's best to stay away from girls like this. I don't think guys should f*** any girl they wouldn't want to be the mother of their children considering how easy it is for young girls to get knocked up these days! If she gets pregnant, you'll really be regretting it!

[EmpressMe]

Please don't be stupid, don't let your d*** control you and allow this girl to string you along.

[Getwhatyougive]

(Not enough space in the comment ) *it'd be better if you talk to her, wouldn't it be better to know where this is going ? Sorry if this makes you feel bad :/ I hope it's gonna be okay

[apen87]

Thank you sweetie I think I will just talk to her soon

[larry69]

Women can and do use their periods to not have sex...tell her you don't mind her period and see what she says?

[apen87]

I did lol and she was like... "Ewww gross" and when we were making out I tried putting my hand in between her legs and she moved my hand away lol

[Racez]

She's just really attracted to you, and kinda wants see you chasing for her.

[Yurippe]

Periods CAN be unpredictable, that's true. But... she demands that you pay for the hotel even though it's your birthday? Seems a little... gold-diggerish?

[drjohno]

She's f***ing with ya. Drop her and get a new one cause no girl is worth the trouble.