Should I believe a girl that says my boyfriend cheated on me with her?

[Anonymous]

A girl recently told me my boyfriend cheated on me with her. Should I believe it?

[Chunk-Stonechest]

Your sisters make sense on this issue. Who would approach you with such an outrageous story? This girl either has a devious, hidden agenda, or she's dishing out some brutal truth. Normally, people aren't calculated or creative enough to try and hurt you with this kind of lie. Watch the eyes in particular when you confront your lover about this story. Look for duration of eye contact and take note of the pupil dilation. Be mindful of elaborate, complex responses which reveal rehearsal. Truthful, spontaneous responses tend to be shorter since they don't anticipate the need to fill in memory gaps or extraneous detail.

[Littletad]

It depends on her relationship with your boyfriend. If she doesn't know him at all, I'm sure this girl is trying to inform you. Nothing more. I think you should be more worried with what she said, rather than if what she said is true.

[ALWAYSclassy]

Not necessarily. Sometimes girls can be spiteful and for all you know she could be lying to break your relationship up. Look at the whole situation. When did he supposedly cheat on you? Look for other signs that will tell you if your man was faithful or not. Tell him what she told you and see how he reacts. Those will be the clues that tell you if she was right or lying. To be honest, something does sound fishy though. Most random girls would just say tell the girlfriend this but she may just want your man..

[babezilla]

well I would hope this wasnt a friend of yours that told you this. but you would have to go by how reliable this girl is for one. and you definitely need to talk to your boy. nothing good will come of it if you go and accuse him of anything. but you can't let him just dance around the truth either. mostly it will come down to his honesty and whether you trust him enough. if there is a lack of trust, unfortunatley it is probably not the healthiest relationship for you to be in/

[icecreamlover]

you should ask your boyfriend the truth and see his reaction, but don't be bitchy or accusing about it, just be laid back and ask him and see if he chokes up, because if he really hasn't cheated on you, you don't want him to think you don't trust him...trust is very impt...

orrr you can also ask that girl who told you to prove it

[hiimjessicax3]

it depends who she is to you. is she your friend? or just some random girl? she may be trying to get you jealous.

[heygirlhey]

ya, why would she just make that up and tell you that?